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To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. Or maybe you really are just one person among billions. Geez, how bad can it get?
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Abusing women, I night I won't ever forget.
I went over to a party last night. The host was a friend of mine who’s going to be married in mid July. I pulled her aside last night and told her how proud I was of her even though I never liked the guy she was seeing. She started crying I thought they were tears of joy, but I was dead wrong. She had belt marks all over her back. My heart broke, I new the guy was a creep and there was something off about him, but I never looked any deeper. See was so happy or so it seemed. I went down to the rest of the party. The SOB was drunk and hitting on some blondie. I went right up to him and shoved my fist in his face. And keep kicking his sorry ass even when he was down. Who ever says you shouldn’t kick a guy when he’s down is off the scale wrong. After a bunch of my friends got me off him, I told them what was going on. I even grabbed her, I could see they believed me but still denied it then I showed them what he’d done to her the marks and bruises were a blackish-blue mix of purple. Then the guys who pulled me away jumped the SOB. I found out later that night when one of the guys called me from the ER that we had given him a concussion, broken 3-4 ribs, dislocated his shoulder and jaw, and someone stomped on his knee or used an object so hard his right knee shattered other than that he only had bruises. Nevertheless after he was half dead the police arrived, thank god it was the police officers I knew. I gave them my word that we beat the crap out of him over self defense and so did many of the people who attended. I also filed for a restraining order and he was also charged with assault and battery and for abusing my friend. After the party cleared out I held her in my arms and she wept. After that, I tucked her in and stayed with her the entire night watching over her, whispering in her ear, she once told me she liked my voice low and soothing. Despite the swollen eyes for crying so much she looked like an angel to me. I vowed to keep her safe even though she was older than me and old enough to take care of herself. I made her breakfast in bed then kissed her goodbye when she all but shoved me out her door to get to school. I call her between classes and called some girls to keep her company. Some stuff only women can understand. I’m planning to see her during my lunch break then tough out the rest of school. Go over to the police station, go home grab some overnight cloths to changed into and bunk at her house for a couple of days. She might not like it, but that’s how it’s going to be. I’m very protective of my own and especially of those who touched my life in ways I’m very grateful for. You guys would have done the same, right?
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April 14, 2010 - 7:13am
#2
You sound like you enjoyed it. I gotta say now that I think about it I think I over did it.
April 13, 2010 - 8:12am
#6
I would've done the same. You did a great job on helping her. For that jerk, I swear if only I knew who he was. Honestly, since we live in the United State, I think she should of called the cops or hit him too. Every women in this world are capable of protecting themselves but they chose not too (Well some). I hope the marriage is off now. She don't deserve a man like that. No one does. I do hope she's moving on and don't go back to him. Take good care of her.
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄ƷEy is a GIRL!
April 14, 2010 - 7:15am
#7
Honestly, I feel hurt that even if she couldn't have gone to the cops she could of told me or any one of her friends. No doubt we would have done something and it wouldn't have had to lead to this.
April 13, 2010 - 9:10am
#8
damn girl i've would have done then same thing to a guy who beats and
abuse there girl like that. The saying never kick a guy when he's
down is true.You've have to beat him down even more. I hope you and
your friend has a nice lunch. In the words of my mentor (2pac) Keep
your head up
April 14, 2010 - 7:21am
#9
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April 14, 2010 - 7:20am
#10
Just to clear the air I'm not a girl, if that was what you were thinking. Lunch was great. She caught me staring at her so she broke into laughter. She slowly gathering herself up. Women are strong.
April 13, 2010 - 9:31am
#11
oh wow. I hope all things goes well. I wouldn't have the guts to beat him down... but if I was a guy and was feeling it... you know... like DANG! This is a good girl, WTH did she do to deserve this?! then yeah. a shove 1st then some aggressive smack talk and a swing. 
GL.
April 14, 2010 - 7:22am
#12
She was sweet and too kind. Any guy would be lucky to have her. This asshole just took advantage of her.
April 13, 2010 - 9:48am
#13
humm.. *speechless*
April 14, 2010 - 7:25am
#14
stuff happens. even when it happens to those who don't deserve them.
April 13, 2010 - 9:53am
#15
For being a girl, I so would beat him down to the point where he won't be ale to open his eyes no more. hehe Good job Yang.
April 14, 2010 - 7:23am
#16
well thank you, but alot of the other guys pitched in and did their part too.
April 13, 2010 - 3:12pm
#17
well, i hope he doesn't come to hp and print this out because technically you just admit that it wasn't self defense and u jux felt like beating the heck out of him... it was wrong for him to abuse the girl, but it's also wrong for you to give him a concussion... What if you've killed him? oh well, violence doesn't solve anything.. if u felt like u did ur friend a favor then maybe u did.. I hope u feel better now.. - Sara
April 13, 2010 - 7:33pm
#18
Right on, Sara. My thoughts are the same for this situation. =)
April 14, 2010 - 7:36am
#19
Well, first off reading this comment made me feel really small and a total idiot. But the guy is a white guy and I don't he'll be able to stumble upon this site. Hp is a secert part of my life. If my family and friends knew about it I would never be able to live it down. Yes I guess I over did it and it was wrong to give him a concussion, but I guess the dislocated/broken bones was okay. If I would have killed him I would be very dissapointed in myself, but still I wouldn't have regreted it. violence doesn't slove anything, but when push comes to shove your not telling me you would sit down with the SOB and have a civil conversation. I don't feel like I did anyone a favor and as crazy as it sounds I'm not bragging that I kick his ass nor and I gloating about it. I feel bad and I may have just added onto the pain my friend is in, but at the time I was mad and kicking his ass was logic to me. I don't feel better, how could I. Is feeling better going to help my friend move on?, Is it going to help just magicly make the situtaion disappear? I feel like crap and it's not your fault so don't worry about it. Just really stress, things are messed up in my life right now and it seems bad things just keep happening. Can it get any worse? Yea, probably.
April 14, 2010 - 7:44am
#20
sweetie, lets runaway. you're almost 18. lets pretend you are already 
April 13, 2010 - 10:59pm
#23
Hrm....I think I would have felt the same thing...but for the physical beating up....I'm not sure I could do that. No doubt I would have had the strong urge to do so, even if I felt that it would only do good for the moment.
The thoughts running thru my mind as I read your blog was that I would have jumped him too, payback for what he did to my friend, especially if it's a close friend like you make her seem here.
The...."logical" side of me protests that no matter how I felt in that moment, would I really have put my fist to his face?
Again, the urges would be to beat him up. Vengeance, in place of my friend.
Think before action says talk to him first, see what he has to say.
Action before talk says to beat the sh!t out of him, no matter what.
I guess it depends on where you stand....
But if you did this on your own accord and in your own belief, then thumbs up for you.
April 14, 2010 - 7:43am
#24
So you're saying that the reason I beat the living **** out of him is because I did it for myself and I should be proud. I did it because I could help my friend out of the situation before he start beating on her? I think I would have done it for any girl. Beating on girls just doesn’t seem right and especially if it's towards one of my friends. At the point talking to him was not in option. I barely knew him, but from my stand point he had a red mark in my books and seeing what he did to my friend, well, hell broke lose. I'm not a violent person. Violence is my last resort, but at the moment it became my first.
April 15, 2010 - 12:28am
#25
LoL! NO! I meant that you did it on your own. No...persuasion needed, outside the reason of why you did it.
And the talking to him, that was only the...somewhat logical/peaceful side of my own mind, I speak for no one else. But of course, I cannot say for certain cause I am not in that situation.
And a red mark before you two met? LoL, that signaled trouble already.
Violence may be a last resort....but sometimes, it's the only resort that would work.
April 15, 2010 - 7:16am
#26
I have a gut feeling on men who try to hit on the ladies of my life. Just like women have their instincts and the turtle “from over the hedge” tail’s tingle when he gets a bad feeling. lol Aniway, I guess I’m supposed to be more calm now, but the whole thing is making me more frustrated. I’ll get over it soon though.
April 15, 2010 - 2:34pm
#27
Turtle? o.O I honestly have no idea what that means.
Anyways! Calm down. LoL. Easier said than done, prolly. What's done is done now.
Why more frustration now?
April 14, 2010 - 2:48pm
#30
great story..i didnt finish it but i read few lines..
the bf is cruel and evil....wow she should get away from him..scary..
April 15, 2010 - 7:17am
#31
she was afraid and didn't know what to do. It's better now than later.
April 14, 2010 - 6:33pm
#32
Women are strong. We can put on the biggest smile, go home and hold it in until we are all alone, curl up and let out the biggest cries, then do it all over again the next day. I guess it's in our nature to appear fine, to appear put together, and not let it show because we don't want to worry others or to get judge, to open up because it's a door we can't close, and also because we're scare. Not every women will act the same, but I'm speaking in general of those staying in a repetitive abusive relationships. Violence don't solve, but when you're pushed to a limit, your rational thoughts are no where to be found, the only thing you can think of is how much you want to pain them for hurting the one you care for, so you do it. Some people won't take that route, but there are some that can't control it. If I was in your position, I'd probably do the exact same, not to make myself feel better, but because I know I probably can't control my emotions at the moment.
April 15, 2010 - 7:20am
#33
Yes women are so strong and stubborn, it makes me feel so helpless at times. But theres a bond you crete with them that makes them know it's okay. All the women in my life knows that if they need a shoulder than I'll be there no matter what. I hope every women has someone they can lean on in their times of need.
Omg. Aww that was so sweet of u. N YES u shouldve beat the **** outta that SOB. he deserved every punch n kick. Some ppl are assholes like him. Hopefully he learns frm the beating to nvr lay another hand on anione else. I hate men who abuse women. Creepers!!!
"Be happie in everything you do in life, keep your promises, cherish everyone that comes and goes your way, and most importantly...remember to always smile for me..." -mai 03.22.10