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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
shy
50%
dislike them
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comfortable
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talkative
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Can I get some space!

Family: You can't live with them yet you can't live without them.

That's how I feel all the time. Sometimes they annoy the heck out of me and make me so mad! Just like right now... for some reason, this one sister of mine... she's the one who's always annoying me and trying to get me pissed off!

The things she says are so offensive to me and they just make me want to scratch her! lol... Yes, I said scratch! More like claw her! I know that my cooking may not be as good as hers... but at least I try! If she can do it better, then she needs to stop leaving elsewhere or doing something else when it's time to cook! I get irritated when it's time to cook and no one is around because I don't like eating late and off the timing of lunch/dinner. Therefore, I get started on it and then they'll try to come in and do it their way. I don't mind... but you shouldn't be saying this and that about my stuff when you clearly weren't doing it in the first place.

I do wish that I could afford to live on my own. Hopefully, when I find a good job with good pay, I can live on my own. I don't want any roommates. I want it to be me only. Therefore, I need to save up money. I know that I can make my dream come true... but there's one little problem. I know my parents will not agree with me moving out. Their main concern will be that I am a woman! I guess, it's how Hmong people are. *sigh* I want to be independent and need MY "OWN" SPACE!

Obviously, I'll miss them... yes, even the sister that annoys the heck out of me! But I need some breathing room. I've been living with them for almost 23 years now and would like to spread my wings and fly away.


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I'm in the same boat too. Except I'm the one who knows how to cook and the annoying one doesn't. Well, she does a little. haha Just hold your patience with the family. I went off on my annoying little sister and now she and I are avoiding each other. Well, more like she's avoiding me because I went off on her. But, there's nothing I can do about it now. What has happened already happened.

My parents won't let me live on my own either unless I am married. lol They're even iffy about letting me transfer to another school which is about 2 1/2 hours away from them. Which means to them that I will be living on my own. But your parents can only restrain so much from you. Move out on your own and be independent. They'll be mad at first, but they'll learn to cope with it. Do what you know will make you happy. Just make sure it's not something stupid.

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I like green3r. <3 forever and for always.

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I like dplee. <3 forever and for always.

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Lol... Your relationship with your sister reminds me of my own relationship with my sisters. It's a love hate relationship. There are days when I just want to beat the living daylights out of them. Every little thing that they do irritates me and I can't help but nag about it. I am sure they have days when they feel this way toward me also. Although there are times when we don't get along, there are also times when their presence and advices matter the most. Whenever I have I problems or need help, it is my sisters that come to the rescue. It is them who helps me when I am down and need a helping hand. I can honestly say that people don't truly appreciate their family until they move away or get married. You may think that living by yourself will be the most enjoyable thing, but after a while, you'll find yourself at your parent's place more than your own. Well, in my experience, that was how it was like.