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Who will be/get married first?
Jang (Kanibeat)
14%
Luke (dis_guy)
19%
Pao (ECI)
9%
Chris (Tomato Sauce)
2%
Peter (Salavong Ninja)
30%
Rok (Rok)
26%
Total votes: 43

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How come.....

   Sup HPers? Oka so I've been wondering...how come average gurls get hella kute guys n hot sexy gurls get average guys? I jus dnt get it. I'm nt trying to hate on anione but I'm jus talkn frm experience. Like for me, I think I'm somewat average. I'm nt kute or hot or sexy or watever else. I'm jus an average gurl but the guys that I've dated have all had a typical look: the six-pack, muscular-ish, built body form, 5'3-5'9 height, with spiky hair, in college, kute/innocent but also gangster-ish look, n big kute smile. If u knoe me then u'ed knoe that I dnt go for looks but for personality. Looks dnt matter to me but how come I always end up dating n talkn to all these guys that are above my level? I dnt get it? I'm nt trying go say that I want a dwn grade on my guys but I jus wanna knoe why I dnt get guys that are on my level or lower? Is there a reason for this?...
   I had asked my ex once that why was he with me when he could do so much better. He told me..."why would I want anione else when I have u? Ur all I need n I'll nvr let u go no matter wat. I love u forever n always. No one can take u away frm me n I'm nt going aniwhere." I still didn't get it so I asked him again. He said "I'm with u bc I love you. I love you bc whenever I think about u, my heart skips a beat. When my heart skips a beat, I wanna hear ur voice n be around u. When I hear ur voice, all my problems disappear n all I can think about is u." I still didn't get it so I asked again. He said "ur such a dumbo. I'm with u kuz ur u. I love ur personality n how u can always make me smile. I'm comfortable around u n I can tell u anithing. Without u, iono wat I'ed do." 
   Aniways...bak to the point of this blog. How come average gurls get hella kute guys n hot sexy gurls get average guys? Opinions n advice n anithing else is welcomed... =D 


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All that I'm after, is a life full of laughter!
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Great question! I think it’s obvious. Good looking guys wants an average jane because there sweet and innocent. They know the better looking the girl the bitchier she is.

While the smoking hot ladies prefer the average joe. There more honest and sincere and they have nothing to loose while the 6-pack hunk is a completely ass/jerk whose only in it to get your pants off as fast as possible.

But that’s just they way some people are. Others don’t like to mix. They go super sexy joe with super sexy jane and so very average joe with so very average jane.

And then with the very few and rare of us left. Weather it be blind, deaf, ugly, beauty, oe etc. we just don’t care. As they say we look for the beauty in there heart. This comes along with the sweet talk, total honesty, loyal, great sex, but most importantly love love love. Who cares about looks?

This is my personal opinion, hope it helps.

All my Love!!

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Yes, that helps alot. Thanks. N I guess that is true about how guys want a "sweet and innocent" gurl.

"Be happie in everything you do in life, keep your promises, cherish everyone that comes and goes your way, and most importantly...remember to always smile for me..." -mai 03.22.10

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It's not really a 'great question' because this blog is too rhetorical.

Like I've been repeating myself, to anyone who thinks looks still play a big role or matters then they don't know what they are looking for. Pretty much they don't understand the true meanings of love yet.

I don't know if mine is hot, sexy, cute, or w/e, but all I know is that his heart is what draws me to love him this much. =D

Don't be a dreamer and live in your dreams.

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A great question, to what people have yet to find the answer to. If you think he's everything then he is, it's up to you. The true meaning of love can be interpreted in different ways. Depends on how you see it.

All my Love!!

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True, but I know for a fact that... w/ the true meaning of love, it has nothing to do with the looks.

Anyone who still bothers with the looks, have not yet explore the meanings behind what love is.

Just like saying, love is beyond what's on the surface.

Don't be a dreamer and live in your dreams.

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Well my point of this blog was to see why gurls n guys go for those types. I knoe that looks dnt relate at all to love. My point of my experience was jus to share how some can get gurls or guys that are hit or sexy or watever. It wasn't to hate or say that I judge a guy on looks. I jus wanted to knoe why some relationships turn out this way. But thanks for ur input.

"Be happie in everything you do in life, keep your promises, cherish everyone that comes and goes your way, and most importantly...remember to always smile for me..." -mai 03.22.10

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I have a theory on it but I think I'll just keep quiet. Laughing out loud

But the other thing is that sometimes people are slow and they need time to think and trust but then some people just can't wait so blah they go and yeah. xD liiFe

Hi boys and girls of Hp. =] liiFe

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Plz share ur theory. I'ed reallie appreciate it. Thanks

"Be happie in everything you do in life, keep your promises, cherish everyone that comes and goes your way, and most importantly...remember to always smile for me..." -mai 03.22.10

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..don't know what love is ):
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It's not about the look between a guy and a girl see each other. It's about their personality. I mean my ex/girlfriend whatever may not be the best looking girl out there but I love her because she is simply herself and plus her personality. I dig her personality and that's the beauty of her Smile

Beware: I'm a Heartless; Heartbreaker (;
I'm going to break-break your heart!

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Awww that's so sweet of u. Thanks for getting striaght to the point.

"Be happie in everything you do in life, keep your promises, cherish everyone that comes and goes your way, and most importantly...remember to always smile for me..." -mai 03.22.10