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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
shy
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dislike them
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comfortable
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talkative
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simply just stay away
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i will never be your second option

Big smile as long as you still have both of us, you will never be able to make your decision. You seems to enjoy talking to me and him. So you're taking your time to know me and him and see which one is better for you. i told you that i'll give you time but at the same time i'll move on with my life. you seems happy because i said that i'll give you time ^_^ I just don't want you to know what i really meant when i said, "at the same time i'll move on with my life." ^_^

You will eventually find out that i was never an option to you. Funny how i turn the table around. I used to called you and you didn't pick up because you're on the other line with him. When he's unavailable then you have me to talk to. It make me feel good that you constantly calling me now and i didn't pick up because i'm also busy on the other line. When i'm free and if i feel like it i'll call you. If i'm just an option then you are also an option.

i will never wait around for you to make your decision. You can say that it's my lost but i don't mind losing someone who's constantly bouncing between two person. Should i hold on and risk seeing you chose the other one over me at the end? Should i show you how much i love and care and hope that you'll see all the things i do for you? it's not worth it. I want you to continue believing that things are going your way ^_^


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Yeah I agreed with you Lengo. If I shall be their second option then I would rather talk with another person whom I really like. That way, when the person that I want to talk to can not be there, then I have someone else to share my thoughts and feelings with. I'll never be a second option either. I do not think anyone would want to be. I believe everyone is first option if they just know how to play their role right Laughing out loud

Happiness is what I want to find...

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It's better to be single and lonely than to be in a relationship and still feels lonely.
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i have high self-esteem, i'm too good to be someone else's second option...be smart and know how to turn the table around..don't chase someone when they also have another one on the side..make them chase you..the less you do, the more you do...girls tend to like guys that sideline them Wink

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NOPE UR WRONG MANDY THE FIRST OPTION IS THE PERSON U WANT TO BE WITH...IF HE OR SHE NOT THEN MOSTLY U JUST FOOLING AROUND MESSING WITH PEOPLE HEART....

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Hahahah superboyz es, kuv paub mas..can you be the first lols Tongue

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Lengo, I like your thought/opinion and have to agree with you. Yet sometime it's just not easy.

Moving Forward (:

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It's better to be single and lonely than to be in a relationship and still feels lonely.
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thanx bro..long time no talk

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If you told her that you'll give her time and then turns around and have someone else, you're lying to her... but at least this blog clarifies it for her.. maybe someday when u're tire with the other person you'll find that there's nothing left for you two after all. - Sara

"The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be."
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i'm not lying to her..i did exactly what i told her..i said to her that i'll give her time but at the same time I'LL MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE...meaning that i'll wait for her to make her decision until the right one comes along Wink

she see that she's going to lose me and it seems like she pay more attention to me now...i'll also tell her to wait for me until i can decide who i wanna be with Smile

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Hm...at least you're still going. Let her sit and think about it.

Never know what you have til you lose it, eh?

I'll See You In Hellven. If I Don't, I'll Still Know You're There Somewhere.

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idk why but i never regret losing anybody..if someone cheated on me, it's a good thing i'm not with her anymore...if anyone wants to make me their option, i'll make them my option as well..life isn't fair but you got to make it fair for yourself Smile

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You do what you do

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I'm Married to my Shoe. =]
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See see, you keep having 2nd, 3rd and 4th options. Hahaha Now someone is making you the 2nd option. So the Shaman Lord is telling you to be a good guy and stick with one. =P liiFe

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i don't consider them options though..i call it "hope." i call it hope because i don't intend to start anything with them..i only consider them as an option when they consider me one too..i just want to get to know them as friend and then maybe chose the best out of them all..when i decided to chose someone then i'll slowly try to become closer with that person Smile i don't wanna brag about it but i think i'm a very faithful person once i'm in a relationship Smile

Hope does not solve your problems, it lift you above them.

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I'm Married to my Shoe. =]
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"i just want to get to know them as friend and then maybe chose the best out of them all" <---T__T But that's still making them an option in the first place. Stare It's like you became friend with girls just to see if they will be a potential girlfriend. LOLL xD liiFe

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LMFoooooooaaaa

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Lol, i wanted to write something like this. JOCKER! jk =]

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