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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
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Intriguing .

I find it intriguing how one can whole-heartedly devote oneself to ONE person.
Call me cold hearted if you must but I just can't do it. o_O
No matter how much I love/think/want that person, I just can't give up everything for that one person.

I admire those that can give up everything in the name of love.
I can't devote my whole life line to another like that.

That's probably why I keep those deep feelings at a distant.

Anyways, I'm done blabbering. I just find people who can get so worked up about someone else interesting.

Time to head off to work. >.>


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One who can devote oneself to one person in my eyes, isn't love. Someone who can give up practically everything in the name of love isn't in love. It may seem that love makes you do everything but love, itself, does not control your mind. Lust is mistaken as love and so love is mistaken to be a terrible thing. What is love, it takes one to define it themselves.

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Haha, I don't think anyone can really truly devote themselves to another person. And people who say they are, just are immature teenagers who think they're in this stupid idea called Love. Which obviously can't exist cause well people suck. Laughing out loud

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Karen, you just have to find the right guy to sweep you off your feet. It's not like you'll just magically fall in "love" with a bf or some guy that you met. If love were that simple, then we'd all be in endless love and never have problems ever.

Devotion isn't a big thing. Personally, I wouldn't really fuss about devotion. Trust is a bigger thing I find in relationships. Life's a hassle, things are always going on, if you were completely devoted to one person, you wouldn't have time for friends and family. You wouldn't have time to do other things, personal stuff, and what nots.


"May the Ninja be with you."

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Someday we'll all escape from the lonely hearts prison. Laughing out loud


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Lols. Viva.
I love your pictures. Laughing out loud
Any I like how your "Lonely Hearts Club" is always incorporated into all your answers. Haha

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Wow Viva, pretty pictures. Wink


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who gives. have fun at work yo

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i'll still love you. Laughing out loud

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I have made decisions that were in favor of the one I love but I think the only person I would ever do this for in drastic times/measures/situations would be for my daughter. BUT, on the belief that you are talking about a relationship between lovers and not family- I would have to agree with you.

I cannot devote myself whole-heartedly to someone. I'm not saying I am not a faithful person. I am happily married and I would never commit infidelity. But in the terms of giving/sacrificing things that are characteristically me, I cannot do. I would not give up being an artist, I would not give up on my beliefs, and I would not change my life upside down just for one person.

The greatest thing though, is to find someone who appreciates you for your qualities AND imperfections.

Maybe those who can literally devote themselves whole-heartedly to another must believe the "juice is worth the squeeze." Then again, some people just wear their hearts on their sleeves.....or just haven't found someone to find that type of connection.