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i am a fag. most hmong pride people knows me well at least the old ones.
i have asiantown so get at me =D www.asiantown.net/regretness (please ignore my page info on atown)
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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
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comfortable
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talkative
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simply just stay away
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is this possible?

hm...i guess this only applies to hmong so yeah
i have a dad right..and a mom...

i used to live in mn i moved to cali..
when i reach cali and live in cali...
and i met my dads sister daughter...

my dads sister (which is my auntie)
has a daughter (obviously i told u)
is it ok to date her?? her last name is a cha
and mines is vang. my dads sister(auntie is a vang)
aunties husband is a cha =/

well is it okay?

parents says u cant date people with same last name
does relatives relates to this too?

stop by and answer


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idk but shiet go fo it she aint got da same last name as u rite. N they already said dat u cant date anyone of da same last name. N fo example my mom tryn 2 get me 2 tlk 2 her sis daughter n we aint got da same last name so it should b strait.

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No matter what, that's still your cousin m'Dear. Lols.
And that would be kinda weird.
Plus, you have to think about how she feels about you.
What if you went up to her and asked her if she wanted to date,
and she didn't even think of you like that? That would be AWKWARD wouldn't it?
But then again. IDK. Ask your dad. Just don't tell him it's you. =)

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Lols.

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If she is your dad's sister's daughter. She has your blood. Last names are one issue, the other is bloodline. But i won't cockblock Smile go for it steve.

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Honestly I think its wrong... and dating your cousin usually means more bad outcomes rather than good. If things dont work out she will still be yor cousin and u will always see her.. its not gonna feel right... and I'm sure someone ggreat will come your way just keep your mind open. =) good luck

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haha lol sry but i agree with Rok, true dat nd funnie at the end
but den again i kinda agree wit one_luv_one_lyfe
because dats soo true about "Sum" hmong ppl back in da days
no sh#t foo but in my opinion i would never date my own cousin
even though we both have different last names dats hella gross ewwwww
c'mon now deres alot of fishes in the sea if u knoe wat i meen
but unless you wanna do tha OG style its up 2 you lmao

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Yup Blood is Blood. Back in the days was back in the days. The hmong community is much smaller back then. Sure it is ok, but haven't you noticed it's usually a last resort because the guy fails to find a mate? That is why so many guys from one village goes and talks to girls in other village to avoid same blood mixing. Hmong people are smart enough to know that you'll die sooner or later when genetics just don't mix anymore. Smile but as in dating, it's not like you're going to marry her so go for it. Talk to me again when you're going to marry her Smile

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so on one hand it's okay
cause it's not the same last name,
AND you're hmong and hmong marry inside their family..
haha.!
basically it's true..
"All hmong's are related in a way"
and if you marry a hmong person, you're marrying your family..
haha.!

but it's also a same bloodline..
that's the other hand..

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Shock Omg Steve you did not just jack my signature you little BRUSOHEAD!
You couldn't resist my great smiley face huh? >_>

Anyways.. In regards to your question, it is absolutely fine to date her.
The idea of it may sound a bit sick to ppl, but in the Hmong culture, there's no conflict within the relationship.

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STEVE YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER THAN THAT. Wink shes ur damn cousin!

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