Sometimes it's best not to make those kind of promises to yourself because it'll become a fail in the end just like your other many promises that you've made yourself.

I'm not going to say much because it may end up being a, "I told you so" situation, so it's best for me to only say this much.

I don't think you miss him... or miss his love. I think what you are miss is his affection. Bluntly, the affection of being with someone.

I came to realize this. Using me as a source, I can say I can still and claim that I love my ex but it is not his love I miss, rather the affection I've receive from him. I can honestly say I know it's not love that is holding me back from finding someone new, and I can safety question why wait to ask him for a second chance when you can make that second chance yourself?

Okay... instead of comfort I'm venting. I apologize.

Ummm.. stop moping around and start moving. It's call moving on for a reason. =)

greener: go ahead with the "i told u so" phase. idc.. hehe. n yes, promises always fail in the end so watever..

proto: its nt the affection of another that i miss. trust meeh.. if it was the affection of being with someone, then i wouldnt be missing him or still in love with him. jus in the past week, four guys has already asked meeh to be their gurlfriend.. i said no bc i dnt want to be with them. i wanna be with HIM. n i feel like venting too. hehe

i kinda agreed with Greener about making empty promises to urself.... I mean sure tell urself to hold off on the whole dating game, but don't make a promise u won't be able to keep... As for still loving him, you guys broke up for a reason or two.. When you miss him, remind urself of those reasons... Maybe it won't make the love feeling disappear but it'll give you the push you need to move on with ur life... - Sara

If you don't care, then I rather not say. It'll be a waste.