complications - trust me, he's probably the one for you.

I have those feelings too.

Sometimes the one that does care for us and loves us, we don't see it cause we're too busy chasing someone who doesn't even care for us. Humans are ummmmmm I don't know weird. LOL

But whatever choice it is don't regret it. =] liiFe

I'm going to speak for your bf's behalf.. He prolly loves you.. Going through so much (bad & good with you)... It's easier to say that your guyfriend loves you because he's the third person (being that friend)... but can he still loves you if he's part of the problem? Love is an act of the will.. something something something.. my husband always used that line.. when I think of it, I'll repost.. lol

The guy friend had opened up to you, now he's going to feel weird around you. Your guys friendship is going to change little by little. I know where he's coming from. Sometime it is hard to see all the guys you know go out with the one girl that you really like. (you n your boyfriend)~In a relationship you going to have to get away from each other once in a while. Or one day you're be bored of that person. Have him do his thing and you do your thing. There's up and down in a relationship every now and then. Your guy friend will always be there for you. He will always have the same feeling toward you. He just want to be with the one he thinks or know that is for him. Have him go out and explore whats out there. A best friend is someone who will always be there for you no matter what. The best part of having a guy as your best friend is that someday you may end up with him. But feeling do play trick you on. I end up with my best friend. Thats how we got started too. I listen to her problem, have her cried on my shoulder when she needs one, and most of all be there for her. Then one day she finally had enough of her boyfriend. She told me how she feel about me and I did the same. So I know what your guy friend is feeling. But its you, you're the one with the feeling. Good Luck...\(^_^)/

OMFG! That is like a movie. ;D

.. I read a survey that usually people get married to their best friend. Blah blah blah. Sometimes people are meant to be friends nothing more. And it is his fault for being a stupid looking at your back all these damn years. -_-" ... I have to go watch my KDrama now.

Yup, yup, yup, it's all said above. You're here to seek what to do but we can only point out the paths that are magically happy for you. =) Well umm, sometimes it's just better to not jeopardize your relationship if you're with someone who you can find yourself with for years. But hey, you ain't married, what's there to lose? Obviously you don't have a kid with your boyfriend and you certainly aren't married to him so if you want to try out the "new toy" don't hesitate.

But let me focus on more important things. Sometimes you have to predict the outcomes of your actions. It's always the best to predict what could possibly happen if you do take action. Don't predict just the positive things because you need to predict the negative things. The worst case scenario kind of things. Currently he is your boyfriend and I don't know whether you want to think of him as a suitable candidate as a husband in the near future but we don't really have all the time in the world because of our short lifespan. I just don't want you to regret your decision that you made here. I don't want you to tell yourself that you wasted your time with the wrong man because you didn't think thoroughly. I know that thinking a lot about things can really make a person frustrated and stress out but it's only to protect yourself from pain. Even with all the calculations we make and take, we'll never ever be able to fully become immune to pain but only to reduce it. Yatta Yatta Yatta.

I'm hoping that both men love you the same but the answer lies within yourself. Who do you want to be with? Who is better for you? Is your time spent with that significant other worth the while? We won't tell you who to be with and we won't tell you who's the better man because only you yourself can choose who you want to love and see who is the better one for you.

Good Luck!

take it from me personally, ive been through that and uhmm, NO u wuldnt want to try dating your friend. he likes u, but u know deep down inside u dont really feel the same way he does. its a great fantasy and feeling to know that someone really cares about u. its always so flattering BUT reality is, u are still with someone, and once u cross the line of friendship, it will never be the same again. i was reading an article online a few months back and it was saying how guys and girls cant be friends. why? because of sesxual tension. its only true when it comes to close friendships like this. and if once u find out and go through that w/ur friend, it may not be so awesome afterall. SO ignore that damn sexual tension!!! hahaha its not worth the risk. juz be with the one u really care for, not the one who seems to care more for U. u already know the answer. no problem in that but the only problem u have is that u cant handle the 'temptation' huh Dont do it!!
WAIT til ur really single to rid all the complications.

I think that is very true hunn.