No one knows you, like you do. No one knows you, like your family do. No one knows you, like those you choose to enter your life do, and yes, not even your friends knows you, unless you choose them to.

I can be strong on the outside, smart, pretty, and wonderful. Chances are, all adjectives you can think of describing a person can be true about the person, likewise, our first, second, third and so forth impression to people does matters. These will count toward how we will continue to present ourselves to those we favors and those we don’t.

Little do we noticed this but only our family has seen our ugly side. Think of what our siblings and parents have to deal with raising us up. From innocent and naughty to rebellious and obedient to young adult hood and full grown son and daughters. I'm not saying your friends has not taste your side of ugliness but naturally we tend to not let that side show. We want our friends to remember us as what they choose to describe us, and we all know we want to be known as a good person (for the most part).

This is to say, lets talk about spouses and partners. Now I know many of you are aware of this cycle Stranger>Friend>Lover>Strangers. This is a cycle that most of us humans can relate to or can comprehend. I'm not here to talk about love and stuff but I would like to make note of this and wishes to share with you folks as well.

At the beginning of a relationship where you sparks interest in someone, you tend to only show them your good pages of the story. As the two enter deeper in the relationship, like a book, there will be conflicts and obstacles both hero and heroine needs to face. In simple terms, you begin showing more and more of your ugly side to your partner. This is natural in the human relationship course which we all like to denied (from time to time), especially for the girls. I for one agrees and will not hesitate that I try to listen to my heart more often than my mind. Not to say I'm an idiot, it's because of how we females are wired but that's a whole different subject.

Going back to the main topic, because of these sides, sometime our partner and spouses begins to ponder why s/he fell for someone like that. Friends, I am here to say that you are not the 1st to encounter this and I am not here to break it up for you whether or not you two should stay or go. Everyone's situation is different = different best solution. But hear me out okay folks?

Difficult tasks should be solve with an easy route. Easy tasks should be solve with a difficult approach.

Sounds confusing? Then take it from Einstein, "Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler".

What am I suggesting? No one knows you like you do, if you want someone to know you they must except as a whole. And like wow... you're reading this going I ALREADY knew that! haha, yes you do... now do act on it folks.