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Azn Ave
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HI peoples of Hmongpride! my name is VaHmong Lee. i like to laugh a lot! i also am a very chill person i guess??? but, i like to experience new things, i dont really talk to strangers but iono, i like to meet new people, hang out with the fam n buddies and ofcourse my girl GaoHlee! im not ghetto nor preppy or anything im just myself...
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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
shy
50%
dislike them
4%
comfortable
21%
talkative
14%
simply just stay away
4%
other/s
7%
Total votes: 28
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really... I just want some opinions rite now... [UPDATED]
November 23, 2009 - 9:27am
#2
but her parents are REALLY traditional... I know that if I can get to her there are little things slthey can do but there's this other dude that her dad likes and wants her to talk to him
plus it's sooo limited to what she can do like calling me or me calling her, her parents don't even let me talk to her on the phone
November 23, 2009 - 9:30am
#3
There are other ways to connect...msn, myspace, facebook, and secretly meeting her in places like school, bookstore, starbucks...the problem is not the other dude,,the problem is whether she's willing to talk to him or not...like i said,,the battle is already lost the moment one of you give up..if she's willing to fight with you then that's great 
November 23, 2009 - 9:37am
#4
lol try msn or myspace and see whatup when the parents found out about it. he is going to make things worst (consider it already a mess). but yeah whatever float on this boat.
November 23, 2009 - 9:43am
#5
Aha ok I c thnxs but seeing her secretly... I guess but it's not going to b that easy... But I'll try!
but yea I also asked her dad if I can see next week and he said sure so I should go rite?
November 23, 2009 - 9:34am
#8
sounds like you want someone whom has no limite on what they want to do. go out all nite and on the phone all nite with you? you are pretty brave to talked to her parents. now you deserver a kudos from me, i usually run like a puzzy when a see a girl's mommy or daddy. if you dont want to change yourself for her then stop trying to get a piece of that ass, it wont work. the parents are tradition that should sum everything up. you can either try to change yourself and see if the parents will accept you or walk away and find someone whom has no limit on what they do to serve your needs.
November 23, 2009 - 9:45am
#9
lmao ok I c but I guess we'll c wat happens I guess
Aha thnxs for that kudos though
November 23, 2009 - 9:39am
#10
In my opinion, it just seems like she's not really trying at all either. 
November 23, 2009 - 9:49am
#11
I know I feel that too but she doesn't do things like seeing each other until I say I'm going to come see her rite now and she knows I won't bak down when I already said it.
I guess she just too scared of her parents and she thoes type of girls who can't make up her mind until it's pure pressure.
November 23, 2009 - 9:53am
#12
o n I forgot she doesn't try to put effort into it cause she doesnt know what to do or neither do i and she thinks she knows what's going to happen already, but she was right about her parents thing but every other thing she doesn't try unless I do the work or talking her parents into it.
November 23, 2009 - 11:34am
#13
Tooo much to read im too tired to read it all ill mark ur page down here and read it when I go home and get some sleep
November 24, 2009 - 7:41am
#14
ofcourse... O_O
November 23, 2009 - 4:32pm
#15
well, her parents haven't straight up tell you not to come over so you might have a chance... I know some people say you shouldn't have to change for someone to love you, but I'm telling you, sometimes it is necessary to look at yourself from outsider's point of view. Her parents obviously want her to end up with someone they think is good for her... Until you can show them that, they'll always disapprove.
being that she's from a tradional/strict family, you really should respect that... Meet in secret if she's willing to, but in public places so it doesn't looks like ya planned it up. Or maybe you should just limit it to seeing her at her house. that's the Hmong way of courtship any ways.. 
Best of luck...
November 24, 2009 - 7:40am
#16
o ok thnxs
the battle was already lost the moment one of you give up...i usually don't believe in fighting for love..especially the type of fighting that require you to change yourself in order for your gf to love you..but i do believe in fighting off others who interfere in your relationship..
If you truly love her,,winning her heart should be your priority...Once you got her heart,,there are only little things that only the parents can do....
Hope does not solve your problems, it lift you above them.