- I love to smile & laugh alot, so someone who SMILES alot is important.

I'm not picky! Lol, just kidding
Umm..I'm not sure about my list of expectation
but what I love about her is her flaws (;

Btw, hello jLuv3r!

hrm.. mah list would be kinda long i think. i mean i dnt care if about looks, bc ill talk n befriend anim=one but dating wise, thats a different story. mah past ex's were hella hot guys n they had great personalities. iono.. its weird. so on mah list, it'll be personality, looks (on some level), n alot more. like for ex: i hate ppls who cant take a joke. if ur always serious 24/7 then i get annoyed fast. n if u joke around 24/7 then that annoys meeh too. im picky, i knoe. -_-"

Oh My, This sound like me. I am a picky person... sigh...

here is my long list of expectations....

Someone who can smile and laugh
make me laugh when I feel liek the world is coming to an end.
Enjoy playing sport.
Outgoing. and Random.
Someone I can bully over and over again. ***
Likes sweet because I LOVE SWEETS!

I ran out of expectation.... My list is not even that long
I will be back for a longer list later

For me, looks matter a lot because I must have someone decent enough to be seen with me. I know that might sound shallow, but my mom expects a lot from the person I'm talking/seeing. I also prefer a tall person because height matters too; I don't want to be taller than him when I wear heels. Also, a person who's intelligent would be a plus since every now and then I would like an intellectual conversation. I want a man who respects his mom, sisters, and the women of his life because you can tell how a man's going to treat you from the way he treats his mother, grandmother, etc. I could keep going; however, I don't want to bore you, so I'll stop.

Ohhh, a blog about lists of what I like in guys. I don't get to tell what I like in a guy much. Haha.

-I wouldn't say that I'm really that picky.. Like CL has stated "someone can change your view of expectations" AS long as you take the time to get to know them. No one's perfect so yeeea.

-Here's my liste of expectations:
;A sense of humor
;Dresses well (clean I should say)
;Manners
;Outgoing and (HELLA) Random, cause I can be
;Positive Person
;Full of surprises (:
;Atleast a CAR. A job would be nice too
;Proper grammer
etc. etc. etc.

Not too picky right?

i used to want a girl like my ex..white skin, beautiful, very popular, big boobs, nice body, very patient, and very nice as a person.....

it's hard to find one like her anyway so here's a little something that i'm looking for in a girl

she must be pretty it doesn't hurt to tell the true right?

a good personality...

have self-respect

since i'm a faithful person,,i want one that's faithful too..i hate going through all kind of drama...

1. Have a way with words
2. Have a nice heart
3. Confident
4. Matured, yet kiddish
5. Daring
6. Nice smile
7. Big arms
8. Have a protective nature
9. Funny
10. Cares nothing about other ppl's opinions
11. Acts like a badass but is really kind
12. Keeps only one girl
13. Sweet/romantic

I don’t know how to explain this to you but I’ll try since I‘ve nothing to do atm. I am a lonely quiet lady on the area I lived even the people surrounded me were so loud but me, I felt not like them. I don’t used of getting to meet or to know people that easily. If chances are being fight against me, so to be friend is okay but if to open all up to a person is rare cause I don’t get it often but when if that comes, I can be easily opened up depending on the person I find it characteristically attractive. If I see in him, I would go through him, comfort him, please him, do what I was ask for but if I don’t see in him, I can be ignorant and intimacy to stop him from what he is trying and to not waste time.

Unfortunately, I haven’t experience any reality-love yet but I have experience the online-love. The feelings are so real. I could be thankful since god knew I won’t be able to find one anyways so he picked me one here. LOL! (he better know who he is) I feel way wider than before after gaining this net-love life, it changes my moral, especially my reaction, my esteem. So if you ever ask me about it, I can tell you what it feels to be loved. Love may be tiring, exhausting, funny, entertaining, gaming, etc and that just what it is. You just got to respect it. A lot of you are tired of your love and having so much drama cause you don’t know what love is. God brings you soul mate and for you to also responsible to take care of your own things too. Such as fix your life to be better, find job, find houses, support others and pay goods just to keep you busy. Set your life first then find soul mate after. If you got one already then? Keep your soul mate calm and both of you need spaces. Try not to get in trouble, avoid argument, do what you got to do. Comfort your love in manner respectfully way, jokes with her a little so that he/she won‘t feel left out even when you‘re about to explode. LOL! But remember, fix your life first before you are ready, things may get tough later if you don't. Each of us has our own purpose, and lovers can’t always be the case in it. Sometimes we feel like wtf wtf wtf!! That’s cause you’re not getting what you want and I bet it’s not love or your soul mate. It‘s something else. I’ve read the bible few pages, it doesn’t tell you to give full attention to your love. LOL! LOL! I was always wrong from the beginning cause I craved too much for it and now that I realized, I started to let those that I loved, I let them flow, let them do as what they desire. Anyways, Girls need to understand men’s too. And men need to see her gf/wife‘s needs too.

However, back to your requests: I used to have a standard when I was young age, I will always be day-dreaming about having the perfect handsome hot guy ever on earth just for me! And so on. LMAO! Then times past by, my standard were getting olds and I don’t care much of a standard anyways now cause I realized people only perfect in dreams, just in your crazy imagination so stop dreaming. Be real, get real and just be happy with the one you are with now. That’s what matter and will lead you through a eternal life. Bless to the people you're trying to work out with. Bless you all with the thick-and-thin-love-feelings. Bless to you. War of love is the happy ending!!? Drama will start from there afterward, that’s how it is. So just flow with the way, and that's my recent standard. The end.

my standards:

1. good morals/christian
2. Loving, kind, patient, long-suffering
3. giving, caring, taking
4. good looking/taller than me
5. funny, but can accept that I don't laugh at everything
6. smart, intelligent, goofy
7. manly but sensitive to my feelings
8. have an nice job with a nice pay (hey money counts ;p )
9. money wise/responsible
10. enjoys my cooking
11. loves spending time with me
12. wants a family
13. have great sex

and the list goes on, but I'll stop here. - Sara

Standards on paper feel a lot different in real life. Haha. I used to have quite an idealistic view of what a person I'd want to be with would be like, but I've been more flexible since. So, here's my list as of now:

1. Good looking from my perspective (I've been told that my boyfriend isn't the greatest looking guy, but I can assure you that he's darn sexy to me.)

2. Confident but not arrogant

3. Someone with a sense of purpose in life

4. Has to have a similar level of intelligence as me (Over the years, this has proven to be the hardest attribute to find in someone else. For so many years, I had to dumb myself down for guys because I didn't want them to feel inferior, but I've learned that I wasn't doing myself any good by taking that route. I've also dated guys who were so much smarter than me and they'd talk to me about things I'd have no clue about. I felt like a moron, and I'd come home feeling bad about myself. So, yes, a similar level of intelligence can be a deal breaker for me.)

5. Someone who doesn't have to try so hard to be honest (If honesty doesn't come naturally to a person, I really have to question their morality.)

6. Good manners

7. Decent fashion sense

8. Great sense of humor

9. A lifetime supply of patience (Haha! Goodness knows that with me, he'll definitely need it.)

10. Good hygiene

11. Educated (This is different from intelligence to me. Just because someone is educated doesn't necessarily bode well for their intelligence. Even so, someone with a degree is nice because then I'm able to know that he can see something through to the end.)

12. Good family values

13. Someone who is tidy (I'm messy, so this is to combat my awful habits. Haha.)

14. Cooking capabilities (He doesn't have to be the Iron Chef. He just needs to be able to feed himself without having to order take-out every night when I'm not there.)

15. Common interests as me (We don't need to do everything together or like everything the other likes, but I'd be happier with someone who shared some similar hobbies as me.)

16. Supportive

17. Endurance and persistence (I'll wear him down. =))

The list could probably go on forever, but I've already found my match. I'm basically describing him. It took me a long time to realize that these things were important to me, but when he and I got together I realized these were the things I needed. It reminds me of that question: Which came first, the chicken or the egg? I'm not entirely sure if these were the qualities I wanted before meeting him or if they became attributes I liked after being with him. All I know for certain is that the person who fits these standards is one helluva fella.