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What do you think of arguing?
Well, I would like to know your views on arguing. =)
Is it neccessary for a relationship to work?
Personally, the man I've been with for almost a year now has always
been putting me down. He always argues with me on the slightest things.
For example, if I tell him I'm tired, he'll always come back at me
with the line, "You think I'm not tired too?" I hate that, how he thinks.
Well, he never really had his education so I would understand that part
but its very much to the point of common sense. I'm young and getting
older year by year but I know that I'm a very smart lady. I was
a straight A student in middleschool and now almost the end of highschool
getting an A is the best thing that would really happen for me. I hate this, how my life is being ruined. I know I make my own decisions, but
with him always nagging me 24/7, I can't really do anything. He threatens
me all the time, and when I try to threaten him back, he'll change course
and there's the more heated argument.
Its a good thing not many on here know me personally, so I can share
whatever I like. I've been very suicidal for months on ends, because
he made me feel like I had no rights to make decisions. I craved being
in rehab or a mental institute just so I could be left alone, and now
that I've gotten this far in the relationship, I don't know what else to
do.
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January 4, 2010 - 8:36pm
#2
Aha, Thanks. I used to help my friends in their relationships but now I'm the one who's been left alone. I guess I really do need to have tamed him better.
January 4, 2010 - 9:30pm
#3
i always have to help my friends too..i have to talk them out of what they're going through sometime..then i realize that it's not going to help...from now on,,i'll only give them advice when they finally make up their mind...i don't like it when i give them all kinds of advice but they still go back to their bf/gf...then after a while they came back with the same kind of problems again...
January 4, 2010 - 9:30am
#4
Hi SexNerd. Just wondering how long have you two been together?
And you're only a HS senior, still pretty young so go out and explore new guys. =P Don't just stay with him cause you feel that you two went thru A LOT.
I have no clue on what is going on with the relationship but I hope you'll make a wise decision. You have a long life ahead of you.
And whatever you do DO NOT KILL yourself. Ask for help os. =] liiFe
January 4, 2010 - 8:35pm
#5
Hello liiFe Im glad to hear from someone. Yeah, we've been together for almost a year now. I know it seems simple, but really its not, the complicated details have been left out. I know, I have a good guyfriend on the line, always there for me to call to and cry and I noticed how much all the people at school really do care. - I appreciate the reply a lot tho =)
January 4, 2010 - 11:05am
#6
Get rid of him, you deserve better. Every girl in your situation deserves better, why don't they see that?..., instead they stay with the jerk and end up messing up the rest of their lives.
January 4, 2010 - 8:35pm
#7
I know that, back before this relationship I used to think all those girls were pretty stupid too. I guess I will admit, I AM scared of him. Hell, I'm still trying to slowly kill him inside of me. I'll do it somehow.
January 4, 2010 - 8:35pm
#8
Lose him. From what I read, it appears to be more about him and not enough about you. He's not the only guy left in the world. Arguments are bound to happen but if it occurs too often, it should already be obvious that it's going to continue that way. Confronting him about the issue would probably lead to another so it's better off leaving him and let him learn for himself what he's lost. In the end, you wouldn't want to say to yourself, "I can't believe I spent (x amount of years) with him."
January 4, 2010 - 8:39pm
#9
That is very true. One more thing, all our dates I've paid for. These are MORE THAN ENOUGH clues that he's practically using me. But the most important thing is getting my stuff out of his houes, before he brings it to me. That's only gonna piss my parents off, and I've done more than break their hearts. 
January 4, 2010 - 8:41pm
#10
Don't let that hold you back. Your family wills always be the ones there for you when nobody else is there for you. I'm sure your parents would rather see their daughter off with a man whom she loves and will live happily with. Good luck.
January 4, 2010 - 8:47pm
#11
That is very true. That's why I'm back in school now, befriending a lot of teachers and doing the best I can for myself, to impress my parents. =)
January 5, 2010 - 10:58am
#12
Not worth staying with and being ruined for. education comes first, boys-- well they come and go.....so they come last...
January 5, 2010 - 1:42pm
#13
=)
that's hard...ummm...i'm glad that you're very smart in school but you also need to be smart in life/relationship...good luck..i wish i can help...
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