WOW YOU DISAPPEARED FOR AN HOUR JUST TO WRITE THIS BLOG? YOU MUST HAVE PUT A LOT OF THOUGHT INTO THIS. BUT TO USE THE FISH AND THE HOOK AS AN ANALOGY, IT HAS A PAINFUL CONNOTATION TO IT. BEING CAUGHT AND REELED IN WITH A HOOK IS QUITE AGONIZING AND TO REFLECT THAT UPON HUMANS, IT SOUNDS LIKE THE PERSON MADE A BAD MISTAKE. AND NOW HE'S PAYING FOR IT WITH A HOOK IN ITS MOUTH OR RATHER A HOOK IN HIS HEART. LOL! IF USING A HOOKED BAIT YOUR WAY OF CATCHING A FISH, WOULDN'T YOU RATHER USE A NET TO SCOOP IT UP AND LESSEN THE PAIN? PLUS, IF LATER YOU DECIDE NOT TO KEEP THE FISH, YOU WOULDN'T HAVE LEFT A GAPING HOLE IN THE FISH OR EVEN A SCAR TO SAY THE LEAST. LOL!

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Things are easier said than done. We see people's relationship through our eyes and we may say things that sounds easy. But when we put ourselves into that situation it's a whole different story. But I guess it just depends on how much a person are willing to do.

It depends on the situation some time. There are some people who regret taking their ex back and there are some that regret for not giving it another try. If the break up involves cheating or any type of abuse then I think it’s better to move on. Never give someone who doesn’t deserve a second chance another chance to hurt you. In my case, I’ve never experience how it feels like to cheat on my partner but I’ve experience how it feels like to have my partner cheat on me. It’s not worth it to give it another shot if your partner has cheated on you. You will constantly blaming them for every little thing that they do; or frame them of cheating when you don’t know what they’re doing. Sometime your partner might think that you’re cheating on them because they’ve cheated on you before. They frame you for cheating when you’re only with your friends. They think that you’re doing it back. Accepting a partner back after he/she cheated on you is never a good idea.

Well, ofc, cheating is never good in any occasions. So, let's not cheat, boys and girls. I don't ever know if I was ever cheated on, but I've done it before ^_^ In the past at least. I wasn't really in love with him, and he's hella psycho. He killed to just be with me when I tell him that we shouldn't be together. Than at the end, I did something I shouldn't have done, but I think I'm glad I did it. I finally got rid of him. Lols. Well, than I met this guy. He was cool. But everytime I talk to guys, he claims I'm cheating. When I ask other people about it, they say its not cheating but he claims its cheating. So I don't know what to do. Obviously, he's doing the same thing too! He have so many ATown and Myspace account I don't know of. And I know he talks to girls too. What a f*ucking hypocrite! Makes me feel like such a bad person, but when at the same time, he's f*ucking doing the same thing too! But **** him, we're not together anymore and that's what matters. We became good friends, but he's loves to be a jerk and a big d*ick. So I think, I won't want a friend like that or even go back to him. And my recent bf is just amazing! Honestly, I've done wrong to him before, but he still forgives me. But I tell him about almost anything I do. Even if its wrong or not. But every mistake I do, I make sure it won't happen again. Urgh. I'm not perfect. But I do love him. He's really good to me. ^_^ We're in love! Kekeke. Define love, yo. Anywho, sorry Im getting off topic. I guess my point is that, those who deserves chances, give it to them. Whatever you feel is right. And my bf gave me a chance that I never thought he would. Its why I love him so much. OMG. Makes me feel like I'm so bad now. =[ Lols. Ok, getting off topic again. Shiet. Bye!

I agree with Happy...things are easier said than done.
Sometimes, someone can't just let go of that one person yet.
Like the lyrics of a song "we don't all wear armor, but we shine in different ways"

But yeah...I've been asked that...would you ever take back an ex
Actually, I did that once already...
[sigh]

But yeah.
It does depend on a person, regardless of what they did. Cheated, lied, abused, whatever. It lies in the hands of the one that was hurt.

[sigh]

Good luck.

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Ohh so many long comments. Hrm... I'll make mine simple. As of rite now, no bc I have mah boifriend n he's all I need. In the past, yes I have taken bak mah ex. Then we broke up again. Lmao. That was stupid of meeh bc he asked for meeh bak prolly 6 hours later. That dumbass. Aniways, I do believe in second chances if and onlie if he didn't cheat or the break up was due to something major. Now thinking bak on it, I wouldn't take ani of them bak bc the cons out weigh the pros. Uh, I guess mine wasn't short n simple as I intented it to be. Sorrie.

You got a very interesting topic here! First of all, I never believe in second chances so throughout my first and second ex, I don't even bother to give them any try. However, because I did that, I sort of regretted but after dating my third ex and given him chances; I came to realized that chances are not so great after all. If they lose it, they lose it and there's a particular reason to why it is called "giving another try" when really, they don't deserve it. Anyhow, sometimes it depends on the things that they do or how they do it because you cannot blame someone for not knowing. Plus, if they love you, why should they even seek others, well that is right, they don't so you shouldn't care either JUST OPEN YOUR WINGS AND FLY AWAY…