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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
shy
50%
dislike them
4%
comfortable
21%
talkative
14%
simply just stay away
4%
other/s
7%
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Are you truely happy?

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i miss you came on here to see if u were on but your not... im sorry if i disappointed you.. i wont do it again i so sorry...
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I know this is kinda weird but its a question to me...but i wanted to know if anybody gose through what i go through...

I have this person that i love and adore a lot, i love him to death and i wanna give him everything or at least as much as i can, but at the same time he tells me that i am wonderful in every way that i am the dream girl that he has always dreamed of..., but what I'm lost about is how come he feels so perfect about everything but when i look upon my self am i truly happy? or is he just not doing enough?

-To Love Is To Care And To Be Honest, Loyal About Everything-

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who needs the world when I got you
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Listen to yourself. Are you questioning yourself about love or happiness? Either way you are asking yourself these questions. I say it's time to do a little quick check up.

To say he's not doing enough is a bit absurd but I don't know your situation so I can't speak for you.

As far as the topic question goes. I'm not really sure I can call my current situation/life TRUE happiness. I'm still full of youth and haven't yet settle down to analyze my overall well being. I'm doing fine though. Wink

Everyone has their own opinion about happiness. I'm sure you are referring to loving someone.

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..what happened? Urgh, trying to write a blog but having hard time! I'll be back some other time.
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Just like what Pang stated above, I'm not sure what exactly your situation is but according to my thoughts. By saying, are you not happy with him? Even though, you've stated that you love him to death etc. Well I'm not sure, if it's that he's not doing enough. If it's that he is not doing enough. Then what is it that you're expecting. Are you expecting more out of him? Or is it that he's not giving you the full attention that once was there from the beginning?

O'yo, you asking for advice but I'm like questioning you nonstop!

Moving Forward (:

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On his behalf it sound like he realy and deeply loves you
but on your part it sound more like confusion.
If you feel like hes not doing enough then it means that theres something more that he needs to give you or that you want from him.

Why do I love HP?
Because since 99 I have been the only one of my Species.

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who needs the world when I got you
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^ ur quoting is off. Fix it or I'll think you're gay. Smile

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Am i the only mexican here ?
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thank you

Why do I love HP?
Because since 99 I have been the only one of my Species.

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who needs the world when I got you
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You're welcome.

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Am i the only mexican here ?
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Laughing out loud

Why do I love HP?
Because since 99 I have been the only one of my Species.

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Hello Smellos. :]
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I don't know your situation but it'll take time for you to figure it out. Just remember to follow your instincts/heart and do what you think is right for you, not for anyone but yourself.

I've heard love has its complications but if he is the one... would you be questioning yourself right now? I think love comes naturally, and if you feel strongly about that person you wouldn't second-guess whether or not you're truly happy with them. I've never been in love nor do I believe in it so it's just what I think.

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i miss you came on here to see if u were on but your not... im sorry if i disappointed you.. i wont do it again i so sorry...
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True True... well ill follow my heart... Thank You!!
i think its just the distance the be and me have thats making me feel this way but i understand now....

-To Love Is To Care And To Be Honest, Loyal About Everything-

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just looking for friends...
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When it come to love no one know the answer but just like they say and trust ur self. Sometime poeple think that person u love is THE one but is it? There will be tough time becuase love drive anyone crazy. I don't know love at all but i know it makes u happy, sad, and many other emotion.

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What? I'm confused...
You're saying that he's perfect, but then you're flipping the situation around and saying that he's not doing enough?

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i miss you came on here to see if u were on but your not... im sorry if i disappointed you.. i wont do it again i so sorry...
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Well im not saying he and i is perfect... he doing enough... just me that's not doing enough for him... that's all

-To Love Is To Care And To Be Honest, Loyal About Everything-

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If you feel like you're not doing enough, then make up for it. O_O
You've found the problem, now's the time to act out the solution?

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You have someone that is dear to you but you're not at peace with the current situation with him. Well, you're either not a humble person to appreciate what you got or you're too much of a picky person. I think it's a little bit of both. But listen to what you're saying, you know, lots of people don't even have what you have. With that said, be more of an appreciative person.

However, if he's truly not the one for you because your heart is telling you differently, then you have a delima. Personally, I know what you're going through cause I felt what you're feeling now. A long time ago I was with someone and she was someone that was impeccable to me. She loved me very much, however I didn't feel equally the same way for her. I felt that there was something missing or someone was missing. I then found out what that reason was. With that said, I sincerely hope you too find out what it is that you're longing for.