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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
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Better to get Married or Stay as Friends with Benefits?

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Ok, sometimes we face a Decision in life that matters about our future. There so much more Divorce nowadays that I am more up against Marriages than Divorce. 5-10 years down the road, couples would split and fight over 401(k), child placement, child support, assets, home, and watever u can think of. Then they start talking shzt about each other. Only few makes it to 120 xyoo. So do you think it's better to get married or stay friends (w/ benefits)?

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As simple as that, if you were friends with benefits to start off with, wait...

Let me finish laughing...

Ok, I'm done. Why would you want to marry your friends with benefits? Are you seriously considering your friends with benefits to be a loving wife? That will for sure lead to a divorce later on because if she's your friends with benefits, she's probably another mans beneficial friend too. Just a thought.

If you two were boyfriends and girlfriends in a closed relationship where it's just you two and nobody else, it's all based on your own opinion. If you know you're ready for marriage, then get married. If you're skeptical, then don't. Easy and simple.

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Hrm....I think I'm with Rok on this one...

It would really depend on you, I guess...
But I can't see myself getting married to someone who is my friend with benefits...that's why you were friends with benefits in the first place and not together as a couple...

BUT...people do things the way they do them...

I'll See You In Hellven. If I Don't, I'll Still Know You're There Somewhere.

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lol sorry to laugh but...I have to agree with the others on this one...friends with benefits will not lead to a loving marriage...and if you're shooting for a 120 xyoo than find someone else...

friends with benefits is just that...no strings...

Madi

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Each have its own pros and cons.
You just gotta weigh both and figure out which one suits your situation and your personality more.

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hahaha, yea why wuld u want to consider marrying ur friend w/benefits....you both cant even commit to a relationship yet. rhetorical question -

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LOL. WAHHH!??!!! everyone pretty much said it

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