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Cheaters.
October 12, 2009 - 6:14pm
I was sitting, waiting for interesting forums or blogs to write to and got bored, so started thinking.
I got to thinking about relationships. Why do we cheat? Is it because we are greedy and we want more? Is it because the person we are with doesn't fully satisfy us? Why? If the person you're with doesn't satisfy you, why not just let go, instead of having to go through the trouble of trying to hide another person?
From what I've seen, most people who cheats, cheats with someone more uglier than the person they are with. They have the most prettiest or most handsome guy, but decides to cheat on that person with a person who looks like a 'horse'! You're love one treats you great and loves you with everything they have, you cheat on them with a jerk, a b i t c h, an a s s hole, a s l u t. Are you proud that you have two love ones? Does that give you a better name?
Why do some people function like this? Is putting someone in pain your way of entertainment?!
October 12, 2009 - 6:29pm
#2
Oh, I didn't know it wasn't sensored. 
Thank you.
More may sometimes be less? What do you mean by that? They cheat because the person they are with is too much?
October 12, 2009 - 7:18pm
#3
No. It means that wanting more may cause you to actually end up with less of what you wanted.
Like your example above. His/her desire to want someone else may result in him/her to be with someone possibly uglier, more rude, less respectful, etc.
October 12, 2009 - 8:25pm
#4
Oh hahaha! Ok, makes sense.
October 12, 2009 - 9:17pm
#5
people cheat cos their bored and yes, cos they can. And cos its thrilling and new and fasincating, and it makes them feel young again. i have friends who cheats on eachother and it usually starts this way...their bored, &their partner arent giving them the attention they want...and so they seek it eleswhere.
October 12, 2009 - 9:28pm
#6
most of the time they'll end up regretting..especially those cheater who're in long term relationship...
October 13, 2009 - 1:40pm
#7
"their bored, &their partner arent giving them the attention they want...and so they seek it eleswhere."
Why not let go of that particular 'boring' person? Why waste your time being with them and be seen as the bad guy in the relationship?
March 19, 2010 - 11:18pm
#8
.
October 12, 2009 - 9:27pm
#9
i agree with TS(topic starter) that a lot of the time people cheat on their partner for someone that's more uglier... 
there are so many reasons why people cheat but i'm too lazy to list them down...
October 13, 2009 - 9:58am
#10
lol somehow this is kind of true.
October 13, 2009 - 12:20pm
#11
I never cheat. I'm honest with it.
Even if a pretty girl talked to me while I had a gf, I would still be faithful about it.
"May the Ninja be with you."
October 13, 2009 - 10:26pm
#12
jayv. wrote:
I was sitting, waiting for interesting forums or blogs to write to and got bored, so started thinking.
I got to thinking about relationships. Why do we cheat? Is it because we are greedy and we want more? Is it because the person we are with doesn't fully satisfy us? Why? If the person you're with doesn't satisfy you, why not just let go, instead of having to go through the trouble of trying to hide another person?
From what I've seen, most people who cheats, cheats with someone more uglier than the person they are with. They have the most prettiest or most handsome guy, but decides to cheat on that person with a person who looks like a 'horse'! You're love one treats you great and loves you with everything they have, you cheat on them with a jerk, a b i t c h, an a s s hole, a s l u t. Are you proud that you have two love ones? Does that give you a better name?
Why do some people function like this? Is putting someone in pain your way of entertainment?!
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haha You said it jayv!! We are greedy and want more. Yep!!!
And sometimes, we think what we have is not good enough, so we want more. LOL
Why not let go? Well, that's because sometimes the old lover is better than the new lover. lol so That is why people don't break it off, but they cheat. hehee
and no it does not give you a better name nor does it entertain the person or anybody. its just, how people are.. LOl i guess. idk..
October 18, 2009 - 5:39pm
#13
haha ok ppl. i wont express my assumptions like yall, but tell it from my point of view. Im not gona say that i HAVE cheated...but im gona admit to have met new ppl while im still in a relationship. i juz go on dates (watch movies, eat out, chill) talk on the phone and see if theyre worth cheating with; jeopardizing my relationship w/my bf. if not(FYI: i haven't and not considering it anymore 
), i juz dont call or pik up their phone calls anymore.
I just wanted to know if theres anyone who can BE better than my current BF. ppl are always curious to know if theyve found the right person, always wanting to know if theres someone better. And when one is seriously seeking such, looks do not play a major part (since ur talkin about cheating w/ugly ppl). and if i search and can't find, then ill still have him by my side all along til the end 
thats y i didnt want to end it while i scout
searched, no one else measured up, now i know, he's the one
October 22, 2009 - 2:54pm
#14
mSyANG wrote:
I just wanted to know if theres anyone who can BE better than my current BF.
You do know that there are such things called karma right?
Don't be too surprised if you meet the same situation. =]
October 27, 2009 - 11:47am
#15
Agreed! Poor guy. 
October 19, 2009 - 11:20am
#16
Cheating is a crime.
You're going to get busted one day.
October 22, 2009 - 4:02pm
#17
People cheat because theyve become too confident with their mate's love. They think no matter what happens their mate will still stay by their side at the end of the day. They take advantage of them and cheat because of greed. Everyone wants to be and feel loved. So of course, they would want more than just one mate. Yet at the end of the day, they realized that THAT one person has left him/her for a better person.
October 23, 2009 - 5:34pm
#18
agreed with this thread. so true. =)
October 23, 2009 - 5:38pm
#19
^_^
October 26, 2009 - 8:25pm
#20
people cheat cause 1 is never enough. Lol
October 27, 2009 - 1:48am
#21
straight up selfish!
October 27, 2009 - 11:54am
#22
I guess everyone has their own reason for cheating. Even so, all cheaters have one thing in common: self-interest. I really dislike cheaters. Why hold on to a relationship if you think there might be something better elsewhere? It's ridiculous to risk hurting someone else for your own curiosity.
October 27, 2009 - 1:32pm
#23
Well said!
October 27, 2009 - 2:53pm
#24
People cheat because they're not attracted to their partner anymore. At least, that's what I think.
October 27, 2009 - 3:00pm
#25
Its sad how we get tire of our love one after so many months of dating.
October 27, 2009 - 3:13pm
#26
And this is why I'm dumping you jay for the person above you LOL
October 27, 2009 - 3:36pm
#27
LOL, Rok. =)
& Jay, yes, it's sad, but it's still true. Now, I won't ever do something like that, but I know someone who did. =(
October 27, 2009 - 3:38pm
#28
dang shoot mob siab lawgs. Oh yeah Christopher aka Tomato Sauce said hi.
October 27, 2009 - 5:05pm
#29
I know a few people whos done that. Selfish w h o r e s!
October 27, 2009 - 5:04pm
#34
what?!! I was gonna leave you for her too!
October 27, 2009 - 3:18pm
#35
If you lose feelings for the person you love, that just prove that the "feelings" wasn't real. 
October 27, 2009 - 5:05pm
#36
Mtee, my feelings are still here, does that mean my feelings for you are real?
October 27, 2009 - 5:10pm
#37
o.O Lames as Jay.
Skeet Skeet.
October 27, 2009 - 5:21pm
#38
you always think i'm lame..
October 27, 2009 - 5:26pm
#39
Jay, why are you so lame? Can you answer me?
October 27, 2009 - 5:34pm
#40
Because I am
Lovable
Awesome
Magnificant
Entertaining
*Just a side comment: You know, the word "ass" isn't censored, right? =]
But why do people cheat? LOL. They're selfish beings who always want more. And more may sometimes be less.