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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
shy
36%
dislike them
7%
comfortable
29%
talkative
29%
simply just stay away
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other/s
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Dating Someone Who's younger/older then you

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Is it wrong for a girl to date someone younger then her, vice versa, is it wrong for a guy to date an older girl? I just need some advice and thoughts, thanks.

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Everyone has their own belief in this.
Everyone is different.
At the end. . .
Over all. . .
Age is just a number.
Love has no boundaries. Laughing out loud

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Nooo. Age is not just a number es........What if I'm 36 and dating a 13 years old? =O liiFe

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Horsy, that’s just sick. Stare
I will so report that to the police. Laughing out loud

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liiFe wrote:
Nooo. Age is not just a number es........What if I'm 36 and dating a 13 years old? =O liiFe

Mtee meant to say that age is just a number as long as you don't look that much older or younger than the other.
If you're 36 and he's 13, then obviously there is something wrong with that. Not only do you look like a mother when next to him, but just based off on the fact that he can pass for your son, does it not give you the hibbie jibbies at all?

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Mtee is such a liar. She was all tripping over his and my age difference! >.>

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I dated girl 4 years older than me and it didn't bother neither of us. But then I know a girl dating a 43 year old guy when she's only 19. lol I guess my example isn’t so great. Ummm...I guess it’s okay for a guy or a girl to date someone younger or older than they are as long as it’s only a 4-6 year age difference.

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Yang25 wrote:
But then I know a girl dating a 43 year old guy when she's only 19.

What the hell, Bro? O_O
Are you serious? Stare

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Yea, I’m serious…she’s like my aunt or something…her parents moved her back to her hometown to live with her older sis until Christmas.

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Oh, so her parents agreed with it too?
I mean, dang. That’s a huge age gap in between them both.

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lol let me clear up the misunderstanding. Her parents disagree so to get her as far as the can from the old sicko bastard they sent her away to their old hometown. So basically their hiding her until she realizes the old man just wants her for one night.

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Scary thought. xD liiFe

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Good thing, they're hiding her.

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I dont think it matters.
Up to the person. =] liiFe

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It is not wrong to date a person because of age difference.
As long as you know you two care for each other, it shouldn't even matter.

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Age is only just a number if the two people involved are aware of what they each want/expect from the relationship. - Sara

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It's up to you. For me personally, i prefer him to be older than i am rather than younger.

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But I'm 28 and she's 15. Sad

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But I'm 28 and she's 15. Sad

wow... just wow keesh. Sad

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i guess it doesnt really matter, i dated girls that are -5 to -8 yrs younger than me and they looked the same in bed.

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ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I literally started cracking up.

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What can i say... Love is blind.

However, this is what you must understand. There is a huge difference between liking someone, and loving someone. Most girls nowadays fell for "like" and thinks it's "love".

TBH, of course when a guy gets a chance to "feel good", a guy will never skip it, unless he feel that it is wrong.

And for all peoples... When someone say they're in love, most likely they are. Even if they got blinded and fooled. Becuase it's simple, ARE U THEM? Only that person know how they feel, and only they can understand themself the best. Of course, unless you can prove that the other partner is playing around, such as u overheard what they said.

In the end love leads to tears, and it doesnt mean they cheated or did it on purpose. Its very logical... "My feelings for you are no longer the same." Yes, just like that. That was how the grand canyon was created and how lakes and rivers existed. Because if you were to put a rock under dripping waters, eventually and gradualy that rock will erode.

With that said, (although i dislike the idea of someone 40x dating a 19), we will never know... But i for one wont do those things, unless.... >D Idk, feelings are hard to control. Smile

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Thanks for all the replies Smile

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Personally, I rather date a guy whos older than I am.
I prefer that the man is older than the woman.
But thats just me. =]

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lavy know better than all you girls, the older the more experience. hahahahaah i have a dirty mind. we should get to know each other lavy, im sure the wife can share a piece of me with you babe.

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It's not wrong but I wouldn't date someone is way younger than I am or someone is super older than i am. Smile Average is fine. Smile

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i want someone who is 89 Laughing out loud

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Age isn't such a big factor, unless it's a og dating a jailbait. For meeh, I dnt date guys younger than meeh or five years older than meeh. Iono..this is jus mah Point of view...

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my rule.

he can be 10 years older than me or 10 years younger than me.

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Dang proto... Rofl

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haha that's right. LOVE HAS no AGE boundaries... but as of now... 10 years younger is kinda scarey hah. Once I reach 30 I'll apply the 10 years younger policy. oh I'm a hypocrite...

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I don't think so.