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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
shy
50%
dislike them
4%
comfortable
21%
talkative
14%
simply just stay away
4%
other/s
7%
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Why do we find ourselves not able to look people we find attractive in the eye??

We tend to sneak a peek at a person we like and then,look away when that person makes eye contact back. Why do we do this? Are we afraid they might think we are weird? Are we afraid they will know we like them?

I find it easier to glance from far away. This way, I would be able to observe that girl. I can look to see if they have nice lips, eyes, legs, chest, and so on. The instant that girls look at me, I'll look away pretending I haven't been checking her out. It's embarrassing when you get caught looking at someone.

This is one reason why people tend to have things to look at while on the bus, walking pass someone or simply just standing in line. Everyone always try to avoid the other person's eye.

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J, quit starring. Stare
How many times do I have to repeat my damn self? Wink
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I was only staring because i wanted you to notice me!

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Lol, it's rude to stare so we tend to not make it obvious that we're being rude. Reminds me of that one day last week when I was outside of the corner gas station. This cute girl, wearing a cute south pole jacket with the hood up walked from the distance. I was facing the pumps from the parking lot which also gave me view of the entrance to the pump.

Anyways, I was staring at nothing waiting for my brother to buy cigarettes and come out when I sort of noticed her walking my direction. I wasn't staring at her but only staring at the pumps which probably made me look like I was staring at her. I didn't even think that she would notice me in the car but as she closed in and had a good view at me, she looked towards me. I took a quick glance at her to only see that she smiled and wave with her left hand. It was so cute and so sweet that it made me think for a second if I knew who she was. Puzzled I was, I continued replaying that image in my head over and over. I felt happy for a moment there because she was cute. Making me warm was when she smiled and waved at me. A smile as beautiful as her can make a man fall for her in a matter of seconds.

Continuing on with my thinking and replaying of that image. I interpreted that she probably thought I was staring at her. After my interpretation, I quickly turned my head to watch this beautiful girl walk away into the distance. What a great moment I thought to myself. She made my day.

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Hahaha, What if she was waving at someone who was parked behind your car? You probably just thought she waved at you. hahaha

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She was not waving at you, she was waving at the guy who was behind you, buddy. Jk Laughing out loud

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Lol I thought that too but I looked in the rear view mirror and there was nobody there.

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From my point of view. When you stare at someone you tend to look at how they look like and dress like and so on. But if you look at someone and feel shy about it. You tend to have a slight attraction to them. It just like any animal. I learn several years ago that you have a certain oder. you may not notice it but everyone has it. Now and days though a lot more people tend to hide their smell with deoterant or some sort of good smelly stuff. A person can fall attractive to your good smelly and when they do not smell it anymore they "can" loose interest in you. interesting huh?

i do notice too that if you have very nice straight teeth...people tend to find you attractive. dang i think it just over all. (thinking into deeper thoughts).

i dnt think people check me out because i look dorky and htt-ish. LOL. Well, i have a kick-ass personality to make up for my look. though i think i look great in my own ways. hahaha.

...i think i have a staring problem though. i tend to look and be like beam eyes on anyone. hahaha. i needa stop this habit. sometimes people notice me looking and i dont care. i still stare. hahaha. no need to be scared. jus lazer eye them til they back down and look away. mauhahaha. hahaha jk jk.

i do tend to be shy looking at someone attractive looking. cause i feel like i did something i wasnt suppose to be doing. bad bad girl. i would tell myself. hahaha. yes i sometimes do think they might think i am weird or i might not be to their liking. need more confident in my looks wammmbammm. hehehe. yep yep. i think thats what it is.

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Your response are funny. Cracks me up.

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jayv. wrote:
Why do we find ourselves not able to look people we find attractive in the eye??

We tend to sneak a peek at a person we like and then,look away when that person makes eye contact back. Why do we do this? Are we afraid they might think we are weird? Are we afraid they will know we like them?

I find it easier to glance from far away. This way, I would be able to observe that girl. I can look to see if they have nice lips, eyes, legs, chest, and so on. The instant that girls look at me, I'll look away pretending I haven't been checking her out. It's embarrassing when you get caught looking at someone.

This is one reason why people tend to have things to look at while on the bus, walking pass someone or simply just standing in line. Everyone always try to avoid the other person's eye.

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Because if you just stop to stare at someone, it's rude. lol

Say, your at the New year and I stop to stare at you because i think your hott. How will you feel? lol Wouldn't you think I'm weird, stupid. perhaps you might think i have a staring problem. hehe. So yes JayV, we don't stare at people we like because they might think we are weird. hehe

And good idea, glance from a far distant. lol

That's what i do. haha

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If you were to stop and stare at me, I would pretend I didn't notice and try to look cute. Wink

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jayv. wrote:
If you were to stop and stare at me, I would pretend I didn't notice and try to look cute. Wink

oh!! then i will fall for you even more. lmao!!! XDDDDD

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That's was my objective. Laughing out loud

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Eyeballing = Staring ?

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yes

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