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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
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girls are hard to understand..sometime when you put little limit on things that she do,,she think that you're controlling...and sometime when you don't put limit at all and just let her do what ever she want,,then she think that you don't care...lol...

how do you deal with girls like that?

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Girls are hard. They are perfectionists. They want you to spell out what you want and don't want from them. Then they'll disagree with you on whatever.

Give her the limit, but do things for her that show her you care. Because you let her do what she wants, don't forget about her. Get her small gifts, candy, stuffed animals, and etc. If she's out shopping with her friends, call and tell her you miss her or tell her she's beautiful. Maybe even make her a bracelet/necklace with you name or something that makes her think of you.

Do these small things for her to think about you and she'll always think you care. And she'll always think you miss her.


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Hms, I can almost say the EXACT same thing about MEN.Tongue

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it's easier to tell when a man want something Tongue

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We're alike, just we have different needs and wants. Smile


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Men are complex creatures. We TRY telling them how we feel and they run for the door. Men avoid talks with feelings behind them. I mean, When a girl takes the time to express how she feels, half the time they're not listening. You might hear us but you're not actually listening.

If guys really take the time to listen listen to us. They'll realize that there really isn't any hidden meanings behind what is said. Blah... It's not soo hard to figure us out. Laughing out loud It just takes a few extra minutes and a whole lot of patience. LOL!

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No wonder I can never figure you out! I'm not patient.

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haha...i kinda agree with you Ms. Scikotic,,i'm like that sometime ;]

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YAY! One point MELLY. ZERO Enigma! Smile

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I believe everyone is hard to understand.

Girls actually tell you exactly what they want you to do, but us, being guys, tend think too much about what they say and make it harder.

Guys don't like to share their inner feelings because they want to look tough. They want to "appear" tough. For example, you're both watching a scary movie, your scare as heck, and you look to your boyfriend, he seems perfectly ok. But ****! we're as scare as you are, just want to look tough. Laughing out loud

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Oh BTW, TRUTH is... We DO know you're scared!Smile

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Darn you then Melly!

*toughens up*

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SEE! I proved a point. Girls listen. We OBSERVE our surroundings. WE understand. LOL! HA!

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No! All girls don't understand guys! They listen, they observe the surroundings, but if a girl was to understand the male's thinking, there wouldn't be as much arguments and fights. Arguments are build from misunderstanding. Laughing out loud

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*Nods her head* I agree with you. I absolutely agree with you. Arguments exist because MEN don't listen! Laughing out loud

Tsk tsk tsk... *rolls her eyes* We're going in circles here Jay. SEE. MEN --- NO LISTEN. ROFL!

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Hahaha! I am listening and I'm disagreeing. You're basically saying arguments are cause by men. I don't argue with that. It takes two to stir up arguments, not just one.

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Ok. Jay, If two guys are arguing, you might as well pull up a chair. I'll be one loooonnggg fight. BUT, girls on the other hand, We give up quick. We see no valid reasons to argue and we throw down the white towel.

SO, it does prove what I said. MEN are the cause of arguments. MEN, are the reason arguments go on for hours/days. Smile

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I really don't think it's just a one way street. I agree. It actually goes both ways. WOMEN aren't perfect either. Smile

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First of all, guys don't argue! They simply get into a physical fight.
Second of all, Girls can argue for hours and hours, and on what? Nothing at all!

Your observation is off Melly:D

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ROFL!!!

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Relationships are hard. If they were easy, we'd all be happily married by now. And divorce would be unheard of.


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Sighs, I wish divorce was easy. Then, I would of have gotten one. Argh. :/

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HAhaha! Funny, why would you want that?

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muahaha...i don't like to see people get married and then regret it later...

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Melly, I won't let you divorce me. Wink


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Sighs... Yes. Yes. I remember Peter. What you said to me still rings in my head. "If you EVER divorce me or leave me, I WILL find you and.... ums.. and.... STUFF toads down your throat!" *sniffs*

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I know what I said and it worked. I'm so glad you're with me. Wink


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Sighs... Peter uses threats to keep me. Why won't he just LISTEN?*back to the whole men don't ever listen thing* Then he'll realize.... I WANNA DIVORCE! ARGH Tongue

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What? You want the torch? What do you need the torch for? You going to BBQ?


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Stuff toads down your throat? I should so use that line after i trick someone into marrying me!

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No Jay. Next time... use POO! LOL! psstttt Peter uses TOADS but... each day I'm getting stronger. You know how? Each day I'm stuffing one extra toad down my throat till the day I'm strong enough to leave him. HA! He doesn't scare me! NUH UH! NOPES! I WILL LEAVE! *coughs* Argh.. Dam legs! Smile

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Hahaha! How funny! I heard they're good for medicine anyways

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Eh. I thought girls like it when their guy is putting limits on her? O_O
Maybe only I think such action is caring.

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Oh Now I know Lavy likes a man contolling her. Wink
*jots down notes*

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I tend to let my girl roam free, but still suck her pussy when it get dirty. I dont really give a **** if she decided to run with other guys, it just a way for the bitch to show me that she doesnt love STFU.

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women want attn. =] simply just pay attn. to them. =]

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The answer shouldn't be too difficult to figure out.
Just leave the mother effen nigga's ass.
Why waste your time trying to figure out some dumb person's intentions? If you haven't figured her out by now, then you probably never will. SO.... It's about time you moved on.

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Enigma wrote:
girls are hard to understand..sometime when you put little limit on things that she do,,she think that you're controlling...and sometime when you don't put limit at all and just let her do what ever she want,,then she think that you don't care...lol...

how do you deal with girls like that?

Know when to care and know when not to care. Laughing out loud

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oh...no wonder you're so difficult to understand.....you never let me know when i should care or when i should not care..gay luss...

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oh...no wonder you're so difficult to understand.....you never let me know when i should care or when i should not care..gay luss...

hahaa tell your last EX that. hehe Laughing out loud

It's something us women expect you men to know. lol

In my case, my boyfriend knows when to care about blah blah blah and knows when not to care. So in your situation, if you know the person well enough. You should at least know when to care and not to care. hehe hope that helps. Laughing out loud

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Simple, just dont' get into a relationship.

"...as if!"

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Wow, love this topic. =)
I rate this a 5/5. *****

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Wow I agree with everyone here!!! Lmao but I honestly don't no if I understand girls or not b cause when I say something it's always got to be abou her but I think I understand that. But there are also a lot of other things I dont get. But I don't no I also don't understand them!

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You can't even understand yourself thoroughly.
How do you expect to understand another's actions?

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Cuz we're not afraid to go out there and try

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Who is 'we'?

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