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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
shy
50%
dislike them
4%
comfortable
21%
talkative
14%
simply just stay away
4%
other/s
7%
Total votes: 28

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hello fellow hpers. need some help plz.

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there is this girl in my school that i really like. she is really pretty and kind. she seem like a goody girl and not those kind of girls who always go out clubbing and do bad stuff. i hate those kinds. lol. anyway, she doesnt know that i exist, meaning i never talked to her. only stare at her from a distant. i want to ask her out but i am scared she will reject me and i will be embarrass in front of all the hmong ppl in my school. they will laugh and make fun of why i even try to ask a hot girl out when im not that good looking. how do i get her to notice me? i really like her and i would hate to see her be taken by someone else. what should i do? plz help.

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Just talk to her. -_-
She's never going to notice your existence if you just stay quiet.
Talking to her won't put you endanger of rejection.
If she happens to not want to reply, then forget her. That cocky bitch thinks she's too good for you.

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Dopey Karen wrote:
Talking to her won't put you endanger of rejection.
If she happens to not want to reply, then forget her. That cocky bitch thinks she's too good for you.

Hrmmm, this statement reminds me of someone.
-Chuckles. Laughing out loud

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ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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At first i didn't know that my classmate, Nancy, exist until the second week of school...i came to class a minute late and there was an empty seat next to her...i approach her and said "hi, does anyone sit here?" turn out that no one sit there so i sit next to her...

i put my bag down and adjust my seat...

me: "i have a hard time finding a parking spot that's why i'm late. Where's the instructor?"(talk with confident...if you're nervous she'll catch you..girls are good at reading guys..)

Nancy: "the instructor was here but he went somewhere..he said he'll be back."

me: "oh i see...the school cancel so many classes this semester...did you already register for all of your classes?"

Nancy: "i'm still trying to add a biology class but it's very full and i have to be on the waiting list...did you already get all of your classes?"

i got her into a conversation with me the moment she ask me a question back...we have a good little conversation since he instructor was gone for like 6 minutes after i arrived in class...We've been sitting together ever since and we often walk together to get some coffee during break time since our class is three hours long...

just an example...i hope it help...

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You're already quick to jump to conclusion that she is a good girl who is also pretty, but what you don't see is her real side. She is hiding a lot from the world and the only thing she can't hide is her beauty. What girl would want to hide that anyway right? Those types of girls will be high maintenance later on as their true colors begin to show. Should you continue on, it will be your own suffering, not hers. My advice, let it go and continue on with your education first. Sorry if I'm being judgmental here, but my advice is from a logical standpoint (based on what you described) as I'm not emotionally attached to her. Whatever choice you make, I wish you the best.

[There are plenty of fishes in the sea. Hi, I'm Evan the shark.]

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I half agreed with ExpectedCapRice and Enigma. You should talk to her first and then when your more comfortable with get other build up confident to ask her out. Rather be rejected then regret it.

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Start out with short exhange of words. =]

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