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Be good friends with her dad.
Buy him Mcdonalds often. Work with him.
And pray that he'll give her to you for Free ^_^

It depends.
The girls are "worth an amount" depending on her level of education, age, and how well of a house-wife she would be. =/

Rok: Rok rather go for a non-virgin? o_O Interesting choice. I'd rather go with the clean no matter the price.

menace of destruction: Wow. An older wife. Bestest wish goes for the two of you. But anyways, the standard-set price for the girl's parents is $5000. But sometimes, it depends. Because the parents might be greedy and they would want more or if they love their daughter too much, they might make it more than that.

5 grand god dame what if i said she was pregnant, will it be cheaper? also im younger then her so will it be cheeper? and im not full hmong. she aint well educated she just going to community collage. but 5g's i thought it would be like 300 or something close to it. you guys think we can get away with fleeing the country after im 18? we planing to run away to canada. free heath care.

hahaha she aint divorcee i thought it would be around 300 in never expected 5 grand

menace of destruction: She's pregnant? o_O Well then that might change things up a little bit. It really depends on her parents and how much she resists her parents.
A girl getting pregnant is seen as very disgraceful in the family so if her parents aren't really the modern type, they might just force her onto to you and you might not even get to pay zip. OR they might force her to you and make you pay a TON. So... nothing is guarantee. You gotta know the parents. And being half Hmong isn't going to cut the price.
You guys can flee the country as long as she's fine with it. But then again, it shows how much respect you're paying her and her family. Without a formal wedding and everything, that shows how much you are a man in her family's eyes.
And the idea of free health care in Canada. Yes that is true, but the tax is like crazy high. Last I was there, it was like 14 cents per dollar. Must have risen higher by now. I'm not saying it's a bad country to reside in, but it might not be the best choice.

But all said, it really goes down to what you think you can put up to. Going to a place with no relatives nor friends. No guaranteed job. Life's going to be hell for you. But if you're able to build up from nothing, then go for it. =]

as for her relationship with her parents yeah they love her and all but they hate me i doubt that they will let me married her even if shes pregnant. they think i turn her bad. witch isnt ture she was bad as **** when we first met her parents didnt know bout how she was until she met me. so they say i turn her into a bad girl. shes like those good girls with a hidden bad side. so all in all they think if i go away it would be better for her. her dad hates me he wanted to call the cops but reallize that that only would get his daughter arrested hahahaha. so her family still wants her back will this coast me more? i need to do something right now i cant wait one year to move to canada having she is the baby in march befor im 18. so i just wanted to marry her but im broke i never thought it would be 5 grand.

menace of destruction: LOL! You've dug yourself a ditch. Her parents are just waiting for you to bury yourself.
But since her parents love her so much, I think they'll let you slide. But $300 isn't going to cut it. It's gotta be at least 3G and up. Your soon-to-be-wife and you have some major pleading to do to get yourselves outta this. LOL. Gotta take a blow to your ego and see how much that saves you.

ahhhh im stress out you think i should just get out while i still can?

Theyre usually worth 5g. But sometimes dad can be greedy and want more.

menace of destruction: Damns. LOL! How can you think of getting out just like that? If you weren't ready in the first place to get married, then why even bring up the idea? Because she told you to? Because that's the only way out? There are other ways out of it too you know.
I mean she can give birth to the kid and she can stay at your place, and the two of you can raise up the kid. If you really plan on marrying her, you can raise the money and whenever you're ready, you can marry her. Or you can ask relatives and such to help you out.
You don't have to immediately marry her if that's what you were thinking of. If her parents are as loving as you say they are, they'll learn to understand you two's situation.
But getting out while you can? I'd really hate to know that you're one of those many jerks who are unable to take on responsibilities.

Life's tough, you gotta live through the stress and struggles to fully live it out.
And judging from your reaction. It doesn't seem like you really loved your gf. More like it was a mistake. Lol. If so, take on the consequences. It was your fault in the first place to not use protection.

And........ this is exactly the life that every young adult says they understand and are ready for. When you're 18, most likely you're not ready to get married. It takes time to make a commitment like that. You'll have to have all the fun you want, you'll have to be able to support your own family. If you could barely support yourself, what makes you think you can support your girlfriend. THATS WHAT I HATE ABOUT SOME YOUNG ADULT THESE DAYS. THIS GOES TO MY BROTHER TOO

the baby wasn't a mistake we plan it. the baby isn't the problem it's her family. they want me to leave her alone. they also hated that im not full hmong. and about that **** you said about thinking ahead before action, no **** im doing that, why do you think im in school if i not thinking bout our future? i quit gang stuff i quit going out hell i got no more firends. im going to new school and **** too. dont call me irresponsible cuse you dont know ****.

It don't matter if she is pregnant or non-virgin. It depends on the girl's family. That is the end of that.

menace of destruction: What's done is already done. Just don't go back on what you originally planned or all else will fail. Talk it out with your girl friend and decide what's best for the two of you. But just know that running away isn't always the best solution. Good luck. =]

LOLS! not to be rude but obviously you have no respect for your gf's dad & your also living with her. If the dad doesn't like you, big problem. lol Did you forget that you were Hmong? lol

*Anyways, If your gf is a good girl, she might be from 5 grand to 7 grand. depending what state you live in.

In some cases, if she's a bad girl & her parents doesn't want to deal with the both of you. her parents might just give her to you. "FREE" It happens today, i see it. so good luck and work hard now, just in case you have to pay up. hehe!

KIDNAPP!

Lols. Maybe if you show him that you really love her.
He'll give her to you for free.
Wow.... You're girlfriend gets props for letting you mooch off of her.

It's cheaper if you both elope in Vegas. You can send your parents and her parents the video and pictures of you both taking your vows. Plus you can dress up as Elvis and she can be Marilyn Monroe. It'll cost you less then one Benjamin and it's legit. They have 25 cents vendor machine if you need a ring pop to put a ring on her finger. And you will also get a marriage license laminated and put on a plague to put on your wall. So once your legitimately married, what can her parents say about it. American law always overrule Hmong Law.

they cost a penny.. tsk...

DUDE, if you wanna marry her, the worst thing you can do is call her dad a "bitch ass". Do you think that's going to lower the price for you? I don't think so. If you take the other route and actaully show a little more respect, you might learn that they won't drain your pockets too bad.

In a perfect world a lady is priceless. But since we have to follow Hmong customs, I've heard that 5000 was the price. I've seen some higher and lower. Good luck no matter what price you got to pay.

since her parents doesnt like you, they're going to crank up the price. 5Grand is only the minimum. Age + education + her abilities to help the family adds more X amount of cash on top of the 5Grand.
Is it not usually when the girl is pregnant, the price cranks up?

You could not pay for her. That is also another option.

Whatever choice you make, I hope the best for you, your girlfriend and your baby.

PS

I give you props for dating an older woman. I want to date older woman.

OMG...............................................

everything cost 10,000...............
heheheheh for the price of her head (5,0000) and to blast a party........ (1,000 to 5,000)

yeppers.

Look at it, you don't even live with your parents when you can't support yourself nor both of you guys. Why would you even think about marrying her already? Get your ass up and look for a damn job or continue going to school!!

probably less than 5 gram.

Less than 5 gram. This include food and everything. The girl, not over than 3 gram.

You better start looking for a full time minimum wage job, and doing lots of overtime, having no life, and living the rest of your life paying off your wife.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA funny kid with funny life HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Depends. If her parents follow General Vang Pao, then it's $5000 flat. If they aren't followers of General Vang Pao, then you could be paying less or more. GOOD LUCK!!

MARRYING A GHETTO GIRL? I WOULDN'T EVEN MARRY HER IF SHE WAS FREE. BUT I DONT MIND TURNING HER INTO AN EBT SLUT. ANYWAYS, HMONG GIRLS THESE DAYS AREN'T WORTH MUCH.. HONESTLY, GIRLS THESE DAYS ARE NOT LIKE HOW THEY USED TO BE.. DECENT AND CLASSY... EDUCATED AND WELL MANNERED... GIRLS THESE DAYS ARE ABOUT PARTIES AND HOEING AROUND.. NO OFFENSE TO YOU LADIES OUT THERE.

Smart girl cost: Life time income
Normal girl cost: $10000
DUmb girl cost: $5000
Hoochie cost: Free

Well, just tell the daddy to buy you off. You know is not bad you get the 5g and the girl as well. "Think twice before you regret...not an easy thing to do while you are still 17..."