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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
shy
50%
dislike them
4%
comfortable
21%
talkative
14%
simply just stay away
4%
other/s
7%
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never marry a second wife
October 2, 2009 - 12:33pm
before my friend's mom pass away,,she gave her last word...
"my son,,after i'm gone, make sure that you still love your second mom like how you love me...treat her like she's your real mom...however,,don't ever marry a second wife in this life or the next."
even thought she's not being straight forward,,you can tell how much pain she went through..and she kept it inside her all her life...even though her and the second wife get along under one roof,,it must be hard for her to share a man with another woman...
October 2, 2009 - 12:43pm
#2
i'm very greedy when it comes to love..i wouldn't wanna share it with anyone else... ;]
October 2, 2009 - 1:08pm
#3
Yup so then you shouldn't even think about getting a second wife too. =] liiFe
October 2, 2009 - 1:54pm
#4
nah i wasn't thinking about getting a second wife when i don't even have the first yet lol...plus i don't even want to think about getting a second wife..
October 3, 2009 - 7:26am
#5
Of course. Women these days are pretty hard and complicated to deal with. How could you deal with double the trouble? I mean, even having a wife and a gf at the same time is hard enough. You have to give them both time. Women these days are "time-needy", which means you MUST spend time with them. Lolz.
"May the Ninja be with you."
October 3, 2009 - 9:11am
#6
haha who told you to have a wife and gf at the same time lol j/k...
October 3, 2009 - 1:49pm
#7
*sigh*
My friend's mom passed away when he was in 8th grade because his dad was having an affair...practically a second wife. Before his mom passed away, she made him promise to never be like his dad. He did. I find it very sad.
Hmong people have all these movies about how bad marrying a second wife is. When watching it, they would hate the second wife, and yet, they still didn't get the message they we're trying to send. It's sad to see how Hmong guys are so heartless.
October 12, 2011 - 4:49pm
#8
The reason why Hmoing men don't believe what they see in movies is because movies are stereotyping the 2nd wives.
My mom is now a third wife and she's not even like the women in the movies. I mean she gives her husband everything. I guess it just depends on the type of men/women you marry. No one is the same. But back to the topic... if you are married to someone that has been married or is his/hers 2nd o 3rd... It's never easy. Life is tough for pretty much all of you.
It just all depends. The husbands/wive may feel it and the children don't b/cuz their parents raised them to love one another all same. Or for some it's the total opposite. It's just all apart of what kind of lifestyle you make for yourself and your family. &for others it's just out of your own control.
October 4, 2009 - 1:52pm
#9
If you're officially with someone, why would you think about another one?
Don't you want the relationship to go on?
Obviously if you're thinking about others, you don't want to settle down and be real.
I mean, that's just plain stupid. Of course no one wants to be in the situation where you will have to share.
I don't know about you, but damn I wouldn't.
October 5, 2009 - 11:31pm
#10
sharing is caring, god gave it to me and if the world want it. i will be glad to provide em. but a second wife is a no no
October 16, 2009 - 9:18pm
#11
STFU wrote:
but a second wife is a no no
I'm glad to hear that you still have a conscience.
October 7, 2009 - 4:16pm
#12
why would you want to marry a second wife? it isn't the first one not that all or what!!!!
October 14, 2009 - 8:54am
#13
Enigma wrote:
before my friend's mom pass away,,she gave her last word...
"my son,,after i'm gone, make sure that you still love your second mom like how you love me...treat her like she's your real mom...however,,don't ever marry a second wife in this life or the next."
even thought she's not being straight forward,,you can tell how much pain she went through..and she kept it inside her all her life...even though her and the second wife get along under one roof,,it must be hard for her to share a man with another woman...
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Wow! this is very sad. and because i am woman. i understand the mom, it was probably hell to her sharing her husband. so sad and good thing she told her son. i hope the son keeps her words. 
October 14, 2009 - 8:56am
#14
Why would you want to do that? That's like asking someone to wear the same pant with you. Lols, dumb analogy. 
March 19, 2010 - 10:58pm
#15
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October 16, 2009 - 9:28pm
#16
A second wife.
Look at the youngings today. They get into relationships and they cheat on each other. The cheated one goes into a breakdown, sometimes putting themselves on the boundary of life and death.
Just imagine that happening every single day of your life as you watch your husband caress another woman. Who wouldn't be in pain?
Some may argue that you become numb to his actions after a few years. I would say, yes. You don't feel as much heartache as you would at the first moments upon seeing them as time progresses. But pain is never forgotten. Forgiven, perhaps. Never forgotten.
Of course it is. I don't think anyone would want to share their lover with another person. I know for sure I don't. LOL I can share food and anything else but that? NO WAY! =]
How would you feel if your wife is married to another man along with you? Would you want to share her? =] liiFe
Hi boys and girls of Hp. =] liiFe