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Never seeing your Side!?!?!?!
December 20, 2009 - 10:42pm
Have you ever had a relationship where you do things that your bf/gf don't even know or appreciate? Unstead, they blame you and push more and you're so blind you just let them do it because you thought that if you love a person it's always about keeping them happy and not yourself? How can it still be your fault when you get jealous at them for flirting with other people and not paying attention to you? Unstead they call you stupid for being mad at such small things, however when you do it back. They break things off without a warning, and somehow it's your fualt agian. Even though you knew it wasn't your fault you apologize and run back at them, just trying to change yourself so that they might give you the attention you want. You go out of your ways treating them like a king or gueen. Even though there are nights where you know they won't come online or call, you still stay up just hoping that there might be a chance they do. They hurt you over and over and still yet you let them do it. Everyday changing yourself bit by bit hoping one day... they'll only have eyes for you. Hoping that one day they might see that you've tried so hard... and even though you know they'll hurt you agian, you'll let them do it just so you can see/hear them. So to make the long things short..... in the end.. they don't see anything you've done. They leave you for good.... still blaming you that things didn't work out.. thinking they were the ones who did all the stuff and you took their love for granted.
Don't it sort of tick you off? However, it does teach you a lesson... if you've tried this much and they still haven't seen your side of the story, might as well move on. Stop lingering they'll never see your side of the story ^_^. You deserve better!!
December 21, 2009 - 2:18pm
#2
I know huh mom? No more trying had enough. Don't need anymore help 
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December 21, 2009 - 5:01pm
#3
LoL kaja....when I saw the title on the side, it reminded me of what you always said to me.....then I saw your name as author, I went [O.o]......then I read it....and then I went [O.O]....
Sorry os....for whatever may have happened....
And agreed, if after all that and they don't see it still, then move on. Easier said than done, I know....but if at that point and they still don't see it, they don't deserve you.
December 21, 2009 - 7:02pm
#4
^_^ Yes Karen... I think I'm seriously giving up....true it's not easy... but I think I should stop being stupid... thanks for agreeing wish me luck!
December 21, 2009 - 11:30pm
#5
Like I said, easier said than done....that goes for you being thupid too...hehe I kid I kid. Anymaways.....good luck in whatever path you choose. You know we'll stand by you, even if we may not agree. 
December 21, 2009 - 6:01pm
#6
Off topic;
Karen Chang wrote:
I went [O.o]......then I read it....and then I went [O.O]....
Karen Chang. 
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December 21, 2009 - 11:31pm
#7
LoL are you making that face at me? Or at what I wrote?
December 21, 2009 - 8:35pm
#10
Well I'm sorry I never saw your side the way you wanted me to. So I apologize, for always ruining everything. I'm sorry for taking you for granted. Like you said, it's always my fault we never worked out.
Like I said, if you knew that I treated you badly, then you shouldn't have come around every time I came looking for you. I'm sorry it's my fault that you thought I was playing games with you, when I being honest.
And for the record, I never asked you to change. You're right, you do deserve better. I'm sorry I blamed you, when it was always my fault. I'm sorry I broke us up.
Lesson Learned.
December 21, 2009 - 9:02pm
#11
I never said it was your fault, it's just you never saw my side. I'm sure I've done some wrong but I admit my wrongs and I know what I did wrong... that's why I try to change for the both of us.
Why did I keep taking you back? I'm sure you know I've already explained why I kept accepting you. It's those three words.
I know you never asked me to change... but I tried to anyway so I could adapt to you and be something you'll want. I'm not sure if I deserve better, maybe it's still my fault that I couldn't change enough to fit your liking. But we've tried enough if things were going to change it would have already.
And yes you're right, lesson learned. I hope this taught us both something.
December 22, 2009 - 8:41pm
#12
Lols. This forum makes me laugh.
It shows how much of a hypocrite you are.
You're upset that I don't see things your way, so you go and write telling everyone about how I took you for granted. When you did the exact same thing... Hrmm?
I'm not saying, it's your fault, because even though you deny that you said it's my fault. You're blog is blaming me. Read between your own lines, Calvin. You're saying it's both our faults, but you're saying it's mostly my fault. And when I take the blame for it, you get upset?
And don't use the "THREE WORDS" line. It's pathetic.
December 22, 2009 - 9:07pm
#13
LMFAO oh wow, now this is funny.
I never stated anyone's name O_O. You came here and made it obvious that it was you. I never said you took me for granted, this blog was about how other people can't see your side not how they take you for granted. You took it the wrong way. I'm mad because people can't see each other's side, which yes could lead to people taking each other for granted.
I didn't deny that it wasn't my fault I clearly stated I said I know I did some wrong too, and that's why I tried to change which you clearly stated, that you never asked me to change. I never said who's fault it was either, unless you're thinking that you were the guilty one. If I thought it was your fault I would have just gone ahead and agreed with you when you said that it was your fault..... you're the one blaming yourself, not me.
I know I shouldn't use the "Three Words" line, those word don't mean anything to you. Come on we suck.. Wth still arguing even after the break up? This is stupid not replying to this blog anymore.
December 22, 2009 - 9:17pm
#14
REALLY! You didn't clearly aim this thread at me.
Hrmm... I'm pretty sure I match all of those things you mentioned.
Now you're twisting your words.
You stated in your thread that in the end, they take you for granted.
I'm not arguing, I'm just telling you how I see your thread.
And there you go again using the "Three words" line. See, It doesn't mean anything to me? Hence, the blame is back on me.
December 22, 2009 - 10:02pm
#15
aiyah.. -_- I'm going to stop arguing with you, w/e you win.
December 22, 2009 - 10:04pm
#16
How can you write a blog about how I didn't see your point of view. When you don't see mine?
And this isn't an argument or a competition. I'm just telling you how I see it. Like it or not, I have opinions too.
December 24, 2009 - 1:20pm
#17
hmmm well... my ex always gives me blow jobs. So now i should start showing her my appreciation by cumming in her mouth.
That's why it's an unhealthy relationship and it's best that one GET RIGHT OUT OF IT if you two cannot come to some plan or conclusion in improving upon it.
There are always two sides to every story. Of course, there's always a side, if not both, where the person's actions are unjustifiable to whatever reasonings they may have. BUT, it's always nice to hear both sides of the stories to pinpoint where things may have been misunderstood. Perhaps the other person is feeling like the victim as well.
Either way, the relationship needs to be left alone or it needs major help. And to whom it may concern shall act upon it using their common sense.
[ And ye shall fall by thy faults. ]
<333 Maivlis Vaj.