GODDAM too much too read! srry peoples but this is about, ABOUT, the whole story.
lolx even I don't want to read this whole thing and I wrote it!!

start looking for a new mate, she isnt the only girl our there my brother. there are lots of hot ones out that they can make you alot more happier and you may not have to go through this kind of craps. when the girls' parents dont like youl, it a big issue. i say, let it goes.

everyone say that, but it wont be long before you wipe her off your head

Aha u make it sound soo easy!

I got confused on some parts, but I'll answer based on what I got from your little passage.
Urmm. One thing that you must certainly NOT do is "beat that gangsta's ass" because that would only make her parents dislike you even more.
My suggestion to you is to keeping seeing her like you guys have, since you do take interest in her. Play it normally. This is a great opportunity for you to test out her loyalty towards you. You guys haven't dated long enough for you to kill yourself over letting her go, so it won't be too difficult if she does decide to get it with the other guy.

Only you know the real answer but we can only point out the path for you. Fighting will not resolve anything and if you want to prove that you're not afraid of him, then do it in other ways other than physical contact. I've noticed that just because one man is jealous of another man, they go and beat the crap out of them. This resolves nothing and will only involve future conflicts.

Back on topic to your girl problem. STFU has made a good point by saying she isn't the only girl in this world and Karen has a good points there by saying that she isn't worth killing yourself for. Comparing you to this other guy may seem like you're the good guy but that's in your eyes. You will never know how the parents portray you and usually it's just the way you dress, talk, and behave. If your attitude is of a gangster then they assume that you are one. They want the best for their daughter and they're just looking ahead of time. I know the parents may have a big misunderstanding that your grandma doesn't like your girlfriend and they're just making sure that their daughter doesn't become a slave for your family. If I had a daughter of my own, I would have her marry a man who's family and himself has respect for my daughter. Once a daughter is married, it is hard to try to help her out when she's living in another house. It doesn't look good to others if she continues to come over to my house and I cannot have her go into labor in my house either. So there's a lot to think about here and to assume why the parents may dislike you.

If you truly love this girl like you've pronounced to STFU then there's a lot of things worth fighting for. Show her side of the family the good side of you and just make sure you build a relationship with the father. The key to a Hmong girl is not her heart but her father's heart also. Good luck and please update us on your situation.

I agree with EC. No violence!

If you really have an issue with this then you really should talk to your girlfriend about it. There are two of you in this relationship, so if you're feeling burdened than you should be able to discuss a solution with her. Furthermore, she's your girlfriend. Give her the benefit of a doubt and trust that she'll make the right decisions. Just because her parents want her to be with him doesn't mean that she's going to be with him. You're her boyfriend right now, so don't feel insecure. Just let things work themselves out and don't stress out too much.

Although it's important to be liked by her parents, if they don't like you because of their assumptions then the only thing you can really do is show them that you love their daughter. Actions speak louder than words.

I used to think my boyfriend's grandma hated me, and I made the mistake of telling my mom. My mom got really upset and told me not to date my boyfriend anymore, but we continued dating anyways. Eventually, my mom saw how much my boyfriend truly loves me and she really likes him now. Also, I found out his grandma had all these preconceived notions of me, like I'm lazy and selfish just because I grew up in a good family and am the youngest. It really hurt to know that she thought of me that way, especially when I was the one who bought her gifts every Christmas and Mother's Day. However, when my boyfriend finally told her that I was the one who bought her the gifts, she told him that I'm actually very caring and thoughtful.

Bottomline, don't do anything unnecessary like fighting. Just show them through your actions that you care about your girlfriend and that you're willing to stick by her through thick and thin.

(Sorry for the super long response.)

Aha thnxs everybody...
but imma go to her house today and c wats up and ill tell you all about it!!!

there were a LOT of run-on sentences. it was confusing. anyway if ur gf doesnt like the guy...then hell know, unless shes all nice and sweet to him too...maybe thats y he keeps coming back to see her. its a no-brainer, if she dislikes or disses him, he would not b interested anymore. but im assuming shes not showing her dislike to him. AND i can tell that u two are too fobby...haha. parents cant make u date or not date ppl anymore. why do fobby tragic love stories still exist in america????????