Hrm...interesting...Keep going. I wanna see where this goes.

About You Don't Care....reminds me of you don't know what you have til you lose it

Hm. Very Interesting. What else is there? I want to read more.

I'll be the first volunteer to tell you all about my experience. I decide to do this now so people can learn from my mistake and most importantly that I am ready to go back in time to face this once again. Please understand that this is something that is very difficult and personal to me, I would appreciate your understanding and sensitivity.

When I was a freshman in high school, I fell in love with beautiful brunette girl name Gayle. She was impeccable and smart, I always knew then that she was going to be someone important when she grows up (later in life I found out that she became a lawyer). We were friends, had classes together and we even played instruments in the band. You can say that our relationship was similiar to the movie "Twilight" saga. To me, she was my everything.

Talking to Gayle then on a daily basis wasn't enough for me, I've always stared at her, without her knowing even when we're in class together. I admit, I was so infactuated over her. I imagined what life would be if I was one day married to her. One day in social studies class, a jock confronted me for starring at Gayle (he liked her too). He put me on the spot by asking me out loud if I liked her. I was caught off gaurd and dumbfounded I stated to him I didn't like her, I was displaying face figures of intolerances in the subject he asked me about and stated that she was too tall. It was a messed up situation to be in, upon all of this, everyone was listening in on what was going on. Then I realized that Gayle was also listening in too. I looked at her and saw the reactions on her face. It was like how could you say that about me and how can you embarrish me in front of everyone like that. It was awful to have experienced that, no one should have to go through it. I was devasted and heartbroken that the person I adore the most and was crazy about, I not defend but hurted.

After that, she distanced herself from me. We never did things together nor talked like we used to. I was still shock of what had happened, looking back on it now, I was going through some tramatizing issue in result of that experience. So I didn't know how apologize to Gayle nor to make things right overall. In reality, I never forgave myself for doing what I did. Learning to move on means you forgive and forget. In time, I eventually did forgive myself and this website helped a lot about life (http://theinterviewwithgod.com) but too much time had passed.

If there was one wish, I would grant myself to go back in time and tell everyone in that classroom the truth of how I felt about Gayle. This life changing experience has devasted me but at the same time it has created a more loving and appreciative person out of me. I've grown up to be a man of principles who strive to live life to the fullest everyday so when a situation like this comes around again, I'll be ready for it. Gayle and I are worlds apart now of course and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about her. In essence, I still love her... very much.

Mistakes in relationship.

1. Hopping into a relationship in hopes for change.
2. Hopping into a relationship in need of attention.
3. Trying to put up a wall in case you become vulnerable.
4. Having backups ready when you're already in a relationship.
5. Giving that person too much of your time.
6. Wanting that person to only pay attention to you.

My mind went blank all of a sudden. I'll update it some other day.

Lengo, if my ex ever does that.. the I don't care method. I do hope he ask me to marry him. I know, I'm selfish... -_-

one of the worse mistakes ever is getting too comfortable, that the fire slowly fizzles over time. im guilty of being a careless person where ive chose not to really do anything different or exciting anymore, and we just stay home all day sleeping, watching tv, or surfing the net. then eventually we question the boring routines and our "engaging" lifestyle. this makes us doubt the relationship thinking, "whats wrong with me, whats wrong with him, why am i so bored, maybe im better off being with someone else?" when in actuality u just yearn for some fresh excitement and activities, NOT a new and fresh relationship to make things fun and where u can feel the butterflies n ur stomach again. but really, u just need to seek things that make u both enjoy eachothers company and that of which reminds u both of how much u love one another. many ppl often blame their significant other rather understanding that u have to make the effort to change yourself first b4 concluding that a new bf/gf will solve their boredom issues. this may lead to a regrettable breakup or infidelity. but then again maybe thats the excitment theyve been looking for?

WOW Lengo you should be a relationship counselor or sumthing.... well its a good thing we have good ppl like you around but um ThankYou & everyone else for sharing & the advice But um ill come up with mines laterr im still thinking and im just so tired at the moment im gonna go back to sleep zzzzzZZ........

Here's my list that I'll add onto relationship mistakes.

0. Getting in a relationship.

I hope you all didn't take me seriously, like you guys ever do.

Mistakes in a relationship:

1. Letting go when you're still in love. What I mean by this is two people loves each other so much but because of whatever reasons (pressure from school, pressure from family, pressure from life in general), they decides to let go. They want to take the easy way out.. At the end they're lonely and the new person they're with just remind them of what they've lost...

2. Not mature enough to know when to let go. I'm talking about abusive relationship (rather it be physically or emotionally). I guess you'll either ends up looking like a raccoon with bruise skins (and broken heart) or dead. Your life, choose wisely.

3. Infidelity. If you think the relationship is worth saving, please do save it. There's going to be a lot of anger/hurt feelings but rebuilding/renewing the relationship might be what's best. But if you truly can't forgive, please do let go. Don't think you can stay and make his/her life miserable.. Revenge isn't as sweet as it sounds... at the end you'll only realize you've wasted your time and hurt someone you still care for.

4. Loving too young/rushing a relationship: This one is for all the young love birds who think they are ready for marriage as a teenager... (if the shoes fit wear it; I know some young marriages has work; it just depends on the person). You're 15 and you think you've found the love of your life. And maybe you have - it's called puppy love for some reason. You can't eat, sleep, or do anything without thinking about him/her. You rush into sex and next thing you know a baby is coming along.. Being hmong, you're pressure into marriage. Ten years later. you're 25 and you've realized you've been moving along with life instead of living life. You either 1, try to make the best of things and make your marriage works. 2, you cheats & your spouse finds out & shoot you dead. 3, you divorce because you want to find happiness..;

that's all I can think for now.. this was meant to kinda entertain.. lol. - Sara

My first love break up mistake?

Acting tough when I should have really been on my knees and crying like a baby because that's what you do when you lose someone. You grieve.

I never cried for him. I think once in a while a tear would tease me whenever I thought of him but that was all. I cheated myself in so many ways by not allowing myself to cry, be sad, say goodbye, be angry...

Offering Yourself To Someone As a Rebound

Sometime we offer ourselves to someone else as a rebound and a lot of the time we do this unknowingly...People who got themselves into this kind of situation are usually the type of people who care too much...For example; him and his gf just broke up and you're there for him and listen to his story and trying to comfort him...at first you didn't think that you would fall for him but eventually you will...usually everything's going good at first and you two will eventually become closer...Then he left you and went back to his ex...what happen is usually three months after a break up,,ppl still think about getting back together especially if the break up doesn't involve cheating or physical abuse...