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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
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Second Chances?
October 3, 2009 - 2:24pm
I was wondering, If your love one was to cheat on you or betray you, would you give them a second chance? Do you believe in second chances?
Personally, I don't believe in second chances. Once you screw up, you're done. You come and tell me you can change or you will change, I'm glad you know what you did wrong and is willing to change. All I have to say to that is, "The next guy in line would be lucky. He won't have to go through what I did." 
October 3, 2009 - 7:52pm
#2
Hahaha! If they're were to give me "godly" sex, i wouldn't mind having them as a booty call. 
October 4, 2009 - 5:10am
#3
Hahaha guys and their sex!
Second chance? Depends on how badly he cheated on me. I'm too nice when it comes down to it. I would give him a second chance just to see if he really change or can change. I'm a very forgiving person even if it's bad. Yes, you can say I'm very stupid, but everyone is different. They do things differently. I have a weak heart. That's probably why most of my past relationship remains in the past instead of my future. BUT if that second chances become third chances then forget about it. With the second chances that was given to you was for me to just see if you can change to better yourself.
"Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation leans on the doorbell."
October 4, 2009 - 1:26pm
#4
sex is good,
Tracy, will you give me a second chance? This time Melly won't come in between us.
October 4, 2009 - 5:26pm
#5
For you? Of course I would, but you're just teasing me. Please don't 
hahaha
October 4, 2009 - 5:43pm
#6
I wasnt teasing.
October 12, 2009 - 1:02pm
#7
Tracy_Babe wrote:
"Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation leans on the doorbell."
I like this quote. =]
October 4, 2009 - 7:46am
#10
i used to believe in second chance, my ex cheated on me all time time and i kept on forgiving her, but now we arent together no more so yeah its regretful. a second chance is just a second chance of getting hurt. once they cheated on you, they'll eventually do it again. once a cheater always a cheater.
October 4, 2009 - 1:26pm
#11
Why would you give her so many chances in the first place?
October 4, 2009 - 3:45pm
#12
heh its something called "blindly in love" heh
October 4, 2009 - 4:57pm
#13
Why can't humans face the facts that, once they do you wrong, the love is gone!
October 4, 2009 - 10:26pm
#14
Cause it is hard to move on.
And when they love someone they want to do everything just to fix the problem and wishing the person will change one day. =]liiFe
October 4, 2009 - 10:33pm
#15
Knowing that it's impossible to just change out of the blue.
October 4, 2009 - 11:00pm
#16
Hey when people are "in love" they believe in weird things.
I wish I can kick everyone on the head and make them move on. =]liiFe
October 5, 2009 - 10:41am
#17
Hahaha! Kick them in the head? That seems fun!
I think when someone is "in love" they are like robots. Too stupid to think for themselves.
October 4, 2009 - 1:32pm
#18
Ummm that's not second chances. That's like A LOT of chances. xD You were too nice and she took advantage of that. =] liiFe
October 4, 2009 - 9:17am
#19
2nd chance? Uhhhh I dont know. Like Tracy said, it depends on how badly he cheated.
October 4, 2009 - 1:28pm
#20
Lavy, I believe that the ones who gives second chances, they will always give chances no matter how many times they've been hurt. *sigh* The things love do to us.
October 4, 2009 - 1:40pm
#27
Hrmm I tsis know es. Depends? I guess most girls are more emotional than guys so they give more second chances cause they hope the guy will change. As for most guys, they don't care.
I guess it really depends on the emotional level of a people. =] liiFe
October 4, 2009 - 2:08pm
#28
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October 5, 2009 - 12:19am
#29
I don't believe in second chances, especially because trust is a fundamental part of a relationship. If he cheated on me, I don't think that I could ever trust him again, even if I wanted to. It'll probably cause a strain in our relationship, so I might as well end things the first time and not end up wondering if he's going to do it again.
October 5, 2009 - 10:55am
#30
I don't believe in second chances too. My motto is "If it didn't work the first time then it probably wouldn't work the second time."
October 6, 2009 - 4:54pm
#31
Im awed by Houa.
Nice motto, can I make it mine?
October 6, 2009 - 4:57pm
#32
I like how everyone say "I dont believe in second chance" and the blah around it. All I have to say is it is not as easy as it sound.
October 11, 2009 - 11:28pm
#33
I don't think it's that hard. I've been cheated on, and I didn't give him a second chance. I'm glad I didn't because he got the next girl he was with pregnant. If it were something small, I would easily forgive him and give him a second chance. However, if it's cheating, that's a no-go for me.
October 7, 2009 - 5:07pm
#34
jayv. wrote:
I was wondering, If your love one was to cheat on you or betray you, would you give them a second chance? Do you believe in second chances?
Personally, I don't believe in second chances. Once you screw up, you're done. You come and tell me you can change or you will change, I'm glad you know what you did wrong and is willing to change. All I have to say to that is, "The next guy in line would be lucky. He won't have to go through what I did."
Honestly jayv, i believe in second chances. Lol i really do. I don't know about other people but i do because i believe everyone should deserve a second chance "BUT" no more than second chance.
My own personal reason, why i believe in second chance.
-People make mistakes, we all do. Sometimes people don't know what they have until they lose it, so whatever the case is, whatever caused the break-up. If you are willing to give that person a second chance, i am sure they will be willing to change and not make the same mistake.
Although i am only speaking for myself, i don't know how other people are. so heheee and very true, some people just don't change. Those are the one, you kick to the curb. heheheee
October 12, 2009 - 11:27am
#35
Hahaha. Yami, I'm scare of getting hurt, so I'm not gonna put myself out there for them to hurt again. I'm a person who cant forgive someone for their mistakes, so therefore I would never be able to give second chances.
Btw how old are you?
October 12, 2009 - 1:07pm
#36
I like how you slipped in that last question after your statement. Lol! Hilarious. The skills of a pro flirter.
October 12, 2009 - 1:12pm
#37
Hahaha. Thank you karen. I learned from many practises.
October 14, 2009 - 9:13am
#38
jayv. wrote:
Hahaha. Yami, I'm scare of getting hurt, so I'm not gonna put myself out there for them to hurt again. I'm a person who cant forgive someone for their mistakes, so therefore I would never be able to give second chances.
Btw how old are you?
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hehe your feelings are very understandable. i, too feel the same. But i guess some people can risk it and some can't. hehe. which is fine. People who do, put their heart at risk, like me.. haha i'm RISKING to be in this relationship. lol but bottom line is, if he fawks up. good bye forever baby. hehee
How old am I? hehe old enough to be in here. Say, old enough to buy you liquor. XDDDD lmao
October 14, 2009 - 10:19am
#39
Old enough to buy me liquor!? Damn are you that old??!!! You look like a "me nyuam hluas nkauj!"
October 14, 2009 - 6:57pm
#40
jayv. wrote:
Old enough to buy me liquor!? Damn are you that old??!!! You look like a "me nyuam hluas nkauj!"
hehe yea i do look like a "me nyuam hluas nkauj," standing 4'11 and 96 lbs. lol
Most people think im 17 or 18. but i'm legal.
October 16, 2009 - 10:31am
#41
I thought you were 16. There goes my chance
October 12, 2009 - 1:09pm
#44
People aren't that smart, so they tend to repeat what they did.
If I was to be cheated on, why would he deserve a second chance?
October 14, 2009 - 10:51am
#45
because you hope to change him.
October 14, 2009 - 11:29am
#46
Exactly. Goes back to support what I said: People are stupid.
October 14, 2009 - 10:48am
#47
What is wrong with giving someone a second chance? Can't people change? Didn't they learn their lesson? Generally, some people perform better the second time. Just like a math problem you did a mistake, learn from it, you corrected it and next time you will not make that same mistake again and eventually when a test comes up you well not make that mistake on a similar problem. [A++!!! ;D]
Maybe I am gullible but people do deserve that second chance; thrid, fourth, fifth... until you no longer believe that person will never change. I know you may be wasting your time on them but haven't you thought that that person is wasting theirself away. Help them to help you. =)
October 16, 2009 - 12:19am
#48
The difference between a math problem and a person is that people are unpredictable. You can't rely on them to stay constant or give you a definite answer.
I suppose giving second chances really just depends on who you are and who you're giving the extra opportunities to. If you really believe people can change, then I hope they take your trust into consideration and not take you for granted.
October 17, 2009 - 10:00am
#49
Many mathematical problems are theories which are has not been proven wrong. And math is like people. And it takes time to create and fix the problem; where the varible should be, what to divide it by and all sort of stuff that can be done to a math problem. Just like a person we are made up of stuff, we go through stuff that makes us, us. What made us decide that dicision. And so one. Well add, divide, mulitiply, times, square, cube, etc... all that up and we might get an answer. Every person has it own numbers and of course no one is the same. Unless you are TWINS! D=! Twins are so sexy. =)
October 18, 2009 - 8:26am
#50
Even if that is so, are you willing to wait around for an answer that might possibly be wrong the second, third, fourth, or fifth time around? How much adding, dividing, multiplying, subtracting does a person have to do to find the root of their mistakes, to adhere to logic and abide by the rules?
I'm not saying that a person can't change, because I've seen people change for the better. However, those instances are rare because trust is one of the first things we learn as human beings. If a person cheats, you have to question if something was lacking in their basic development. For a person to truly change, they'd have to tackle whatever problems that caused them to have commitment issues in the first place, and those issues can go all the way back to their childhood. It's going to take a lot of work and perhaps many failures for them to truly learn how to trust in someone enough that they don't take that feeling for granted and cheat again.
I, for one, am not willing to stand by and be cheated on over and over again just so someone else can learn a lesson. As strong as a person is, if you undergo something like that repeatedly, it's bound to affect you negatively and may even cause you to have commitment issues.
I understand that for some people, they're willing to go through that sort of emotional torture because they believe it's worth it. If they're willing to bear all the negative consequences that come along with it, then good for them. However, if it were a friend of mine, I would advise him/her to really think hard about their decision.
And, as far as the math analogy goes, all mathematical systems follow rules. Not all people do. 
I agree, second chances are a fantasy in my book. Once the girl screws up, I don't care if they give me godly sex till the end of time, I wouldn't take them back.
"May the Ninja be with you."