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Should i just move on or keep trying?
March 20, 2010 - 9:58pm
we been together for 7yrs now..here the story.
this happen on 3/18/2010 at night
....last night you told me that its over between us and it hurted me..will i guess i have to live with it because it seem like you will never want me back in your life.As much as i try to get you back you just pushing me away.if you have some already then tell me so ill leave you alone.all i just want to say is please just tell me the truth so i can go or still fight for you.as much as i still love you n want you, you r not showing me anything back.I JUST WANT ANSWER AND NOT GETTING HURT EVERY NIGHT AT WORK..
next day..
yesterday i went and ride my brother bike because she say she have to go home.i guess she was thinking that i might go up the hill and do something but i was not plan too.so she got mad over that.so she left home.then i just took my brother bike for a ride for fun to release so stress over the break up.it feel good when i went riding made me clear my mined of all this stress i have over this break up.when i still riding my brother bike i decided to go to her house to visit her but she wont let me and wont tell me why when i try to do what i can to make this work out.so here come back the stress.when i got home i try to call and text her she will not text me back at all thought out the night.so when i was about to go to work and decided to text her that im going to kill myself(i faked i wont do it).that when i got a fast response back but i was to stress out and dont want to talk to her.so after that i went to work then some how some what she show up at my work place i was like WTF how u know i work here.i guess she feel release when she saw me at work.so i told her to go home and she did.when she saw me at work she said she what to get back with me but i was to mad to get back and i told her ill let her know tomorrow.
today(3/20/2010) my cousin are doing something for their dad so i told her that im going to go over to there house and she ask me do u want me to go with you?i said sure if u want and then she came over and we went to my cousin house.when we on our way to my cousin i ask her do you want to get back with me and she sayed no.so i was like WTF last night u ask me to get back with you and now u dont want to so it got me mad so i told myself if i did say yes last night then she would lie to me.i just want to thanx you for help my cousin and us.will we came back to my house and i ask her again do u want to get back and she still say no.so i told her that im going to sleep.then she said why u going to sleep you dont want to spend time with me.i said no because u dont want to get back with me and i thought that you will because of last night and i dont wont to spend time with someone who dont wont to be with me.so she left home and she said fine dont call then and close the door and left.will i guess it seem like it will not going to work out with u anymore so now i will not ask u back anymore because as much as i try u keep rejecting me.so when ever u happy again the i guess we can start all over from the begin again and see how it will go from there on.thax for reading ill update it again tomorrow so just come back n read some more about my life trying to get her back.
March 21, 2010 - 7:39pm
#2
i know what you're going through right now trust me...be strong.....just be strong ok..lol...
i know i'm not in your shoes but trust me i've been there before...i've been through more than what you've imagine to be honest...and i've made the biggest mistake ever...the mistakes i made are; i always call after the break up, i beg her to give me a second chance, i wrote her letters, you name it...
what does that do???
nothing....absolutely nothing..that just shows how weak and desperate and clingy i am...that just show that i can't stand alone on my own..that just shows that i can't grow by myself as an individual...that's a sign of weakness...the more i chase after her,,the faster she run.....lets hope you don't make the same mistake...
you wonder if you should keep fighting for her love???honestly if someone really loves you,,there's no need to fight for their love...do you think someone who loves you would make you fight for them???i don't think so...
here's my silly advice to you bro..agree to the break up..you heard me right,,agree with the break up...just tell her, "hey,,you know,,i've been thinking a lot lately and,,i think the best thing that we can do is break up.." make sure to put a smile on your face when you say that..just do as i say jeeze lmfao
why should you agree to the break up and smile about it?? ask yourself how might that make your gf feel??it'll make her wonder why you decided to agree with the break up.. it'll make her wonder if you met anyone new that's why you agree with the break up...
After that,,leave her azz..yes you heard me right..leave her sorry azz..that doesn't mean leave her azz for good..just leave her and don't contact her..and i mean it...don't fukking contact her lmfao..sorry for being a little bit harsh there...just don't contact her because what you just did is make her wonder..she'll probably thinking to herself why you seems to be okay with the break up..she might want to find out your reason...and she'll probably be the one chasing you..or contact you trying to find out...
Make sure you show no sign of weakness...take very good care of yourself..work on those muscle to look sexually attractive...buy some new clothes and do some improvement here in there...don't do what some men did..they tried to make their ex feel guilty for putting them through such agony...they show their ex how devastated they've become..that's a no no...you don't want her to say to herself, "Thank God i left his sorry little azz."
Go out there and do what you enjoy doing..meet new people<--that's what i have to do too ;( ......
Be nice to her..don't be harsh on her..you heard me right,,dont' be harsh on her bish lmfao j/k j/k...be nice to her but that doesn't mean you have to find every reason to be nice to her jsut so you can see her..that's a no no..just lend her a shoulder when she needed one..don't get too attach to her though..like i said,,don't be bitter..people who sit around feeling sorry for themselves are unattractive compare to people who are happy and have positive outlook in life..happy people are just more appealing...
remember not to love someone too much too...remember that what girls want is love,,but that's not what they're looking for most of the time...
good luck bro...
March 21, 2010 - 7:46pm
#3
don't contact her..that mean no texting, calling or emailing...just don't contact her for a few weeks...she'll wonder how you're doing or where you are...i know it's tough to not contact her because of the thought that she might go out there and find someone new.....do something to distract you from thinking like that..
March 22, 2010 - 12:12pm
#4
I think expert Lengo gave you the proper answer.
Ask yourself. "DO I LOVE THIS PERSON"? If you do, "AM I WILLING TO WAIT?" and "I MUST NOT BE AFRAID OF LETTING HER GO". Lastly, "I AM A STRONG ATTRACTIVE MAN."
You see, for men, if they break up with a girl within 3-4 weeks they start breaking apart and needs her by his side but for girls it's different. I KNOW because I study about relationship and though GIRLS do break out easily at the beginning, they are SOLID rock after some weeks. BEWARE!!
Luckily for you, you see her every now and then, that's good. This means you still have a chance. Now listen, you MUST undo the feelings you have right now and USE it against her~ Don't let her leech you off.
Give her the TIME OUT. Don't call, txt, e-mail, VISIT her for the next 30 days. This will creates space, secondly if you HAVE to see her everyday, ACT normal. Do what you have to do, she ask you for a ride, DON'T ignore her, give her a ride and say bai and continue your daily life. YOu have make it clear that YOU will BE fine without and that you WILL NOT DIE because you need her.
AVOID drinking/smoking. etc. kay? 
now... being in relationship for 7 years I'm pretty sure you haven't gotten a chance to ACTUALLY hung out with your "friends" USE them. Go have fun for awhile~
In those 3o days or so, brush yourself up! Go to the gym, do something that will make you not only feel better but LOOK better as well.. yes. I MEAN IT! GO BUY YOURSELF SOMETHING! a pair of new jeans or something! Whatever that will make you look attractive again.. just don't PUPROSELY make her jealous okay? you are trying to win her heart back not push her away.
after 30 days past, contact her again and be like "hey wanna have lunch?" or simply "wanna hang out" and if she say yes, great! hang out with her but not too long and avoid the TOPIC of breaking up. If she mentions it and you're ready to talk, tell her "I accepeted the break up" and is happy to see her Happy and what not. If you're not ready, avoid the topic and tell her just to have fun. REMEMBER to keep the "lunch" short... 30min? And if she rejected no, it's okay, ask her again in 2 weeks. OR--- be like "oh come on it's only lunch." and laugh it off.
okay this post is too long. 
GOOD LUCK! Wish I can write more but yeah, no point telling you everthing cuz I ain't no expert.
March 24, 2010 - 4:23pm
#5
thanx you guys help alot:)
March 24, 2010 - 6:38pm
#6
this was a very confusing and retarded story. your grammar and arrangements and practically everything sucked. anyway 7 years have been too long and she just needs some room to breath and be single. give her the space she needs...when shes really ready to get back, shell let u know for sure. shes just still attached to you thats why you guys are still in communication.
March 25, 2010 - 9:58am
#7
Thanks Lengo. I should try your advice but I'm not sure if I'll work on my partner lol. May be I am a bit too desprate and clingy on her lol. But to xiong123, give it some time she'll be back.
Bookmarked and saved for later. I lost interest halfway.