Whoa, another one of your advice. Lol, btw I tried your other advice how to get your ex back. It did work but I guess I've failed it too. Ahh, lol. Well to this advice, I'm not sure may be I was being the nice guy to her but no I did not want anything in return. I was trying to be committed with her. I'm not sure why I choose her. I guess of how we met and feels towards each other. Yet I mean yea I can be a jerk too. But it depend on who, lol. I enjoy reading your advice.

Y you wanna be a nice guy? nice guys will take forever to earn a pussy, no wonder i turned into a pervert.

Lol are you referring to me or Lengo?
Why would I want to be a nice guy? When I can just be myself.

You can give me an answer to why guys like bitches and classify "the nice girls" as desperate.

I swear I already read this topic already.. hmm...

yeah you pretty much sums why nice guys need to do to fix his gutter probs! though like I mentioned in your older topic. I like nice guys they turn me on

and all the jerks I know ain't always BUFF and all.. so.. yeah! It's a choice to be MANLY! COME KIND/NICE GUYS! CHOOOOOSSEE TO BE MANLYYY PLEASE!! for me? tee hee.

seems like being a jerk is better too...you make your girl think about what you're doing or where you are..you don't pick up the phone sometime...you make her think if you're cheating on her...you distract her every thought...her focus and attention is on you...she's busy thinking about you and she don't really have time thinking about other guys..i think lol

being a nice guy on the other hand,,is not that good...your girl know that she had you already...she know your daily schedule..she know where you are...you pick up your phone every time she call...she's not distract by the way you act...you're not mysterious enough to make her constantly thinking about you..so when her focus is not on you or how to win over you,,or how to change you to a better person,,then she have all the time she need to think about other things..like other guys lol..

but at the end,,the jerks want to learn know to be a nice guy so he can keep his girl...and the nice guys want to know how to be a jerk so he can have more girls...

jerks wanting to be good guys.. and good guys wanting to be jerk.

I think a person should JUST be who they are.

for your last comment.. hehe..not gonna hide it, I like knowing that my thighs are wrap around my lover and my lover's alone!

Mai, you like it because the bad boy leads you on. As a girl you like to be pleased and pleasure by someone who is much up to your standards. A “bad boy” tell you what you want to hear, do what YOU may want to do. He’s playing “pimp” because he needs to keep his guard up. In the end it’s survival. He needs to make sure you are with him… that you are woo by him… so he can like… “baby boom boom”.

This is not to say bad boys are bad… in no way. Only a little glimpse of male nature. ^^

Ahh.. animal planet. Any one want to watch with me.

Haha. Bad bois are fun to talk to n they knoe how to joke around more. I rather date the nice guy but talkn to the bad boi type is funner. Is that even a word? Lols. Aniwho..I try to find a guy that is in. The meduim of it. He can be mean but also a sweetheart. Lols.

Lengo let me give you some advice...it's not that we dislike nice guys. it's that we don't like guys who are clingy...nice guys or should i say nerdy guys have a tendency to be clingy...calling and texting twenty fours a day can be annoying...insecurity in any type of men is not an attractive characteristic to have. we like confident no nonsense like of guy who can take care of business...

we or should i say I want someone who can give me security and allow us/me some freedom to roam as we/I please. someone who has a little bit of $$$ who doesn't have to ask for an allowance from their mommmy to wine and dine.

nice guys bad boys there all the same if they are insecure and clingy...

WOW this all sooO TRUE! I should send this to my cousin so he can get over this one bitch this would really help! Thank You Lengo for the tip/advice. Your COOL! I Admire you teehee

P.S.- Great way to get advantage over girls xP

i dont have a problem with nice guys...i only have a problem with them looking ugly. and u know 99% of 'nice' guys are mainly unattractive. theyre being nice because they have to compensate for their looks. cuz if i ever see a hot nice guy, id kidnap him in a heartbeat. but we all know this will seldomly not be the case bcuz hot guys have enough self esteem and confidence to not be overly nice to chicks. so thats y they may appear as jerks since theyre not 'prince charming.' the end

OMG I just want a guy who's himself FULLSTOP...Plus I do agree with that statement where Guys like the BISHES and labels the "nice girls" DESPERATE...THAT is so true!....BUT is it wrong to be yourself?.....I wouldn't change myself for anyone.

Kia.

You mentioned, "The nice guys are nerdy looking and unconfident." I don't completely agree with you on that. There are a lot of nice guys out there who are not nerdy looking and confident. I believe you are only talking about the nice, shy, low self-esteem, and low self-confidence guys. If this is apply all nice guys, I believe you have made a mistake.