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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
shy
50%
dislike them
4%
comfortable
21%
talkative
14%
simply just stay away
4%
other/s
7%
Total votes: 28

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things you should consider before you say "i do."

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It's better to be single and lonely than to be in a relationship and still feels lonely.
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what are they???

who's going to work and who's going to school???

who'll stay home and take care of the children???

what's plan B when one of you get layoff work???

and what are the things that you should know about your partner before you say "i do."

did he/she willing to cooperate when problem arise?

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all i wona do is feel your love.
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hmmm.. i gottta think about things. Stare

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I still have a long way to go until I consider even thinking about these. Laughing out loud

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i still respect you stfu!!!
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good questions but I'd already thought about that but not the plan b.. Laughing out loud

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I'm Married to my Shoe. =]
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Find that person first. LOL ^___^
You can't really say "I do" without having someone there by your side........ =\ liiFe

Hi boys and girls of Hp. =] liiFe

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Some of the stuff that you had mention won't really matter until you marry them. Before accepting his proposal, I would be more concerned with who he is. Smile

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who needs the world when I got you
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and here I thought it was alll abouuut puurrree lovveee lol.

I say, before you say "I DO" the two should be living with one another already ^^! ugh.. yes the American way. Wink

now.. make that list!

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Love is when you shed a tear&still want her,its when she ignores you&you still love her,its when she loves another guy,but you still smile&say I am happy for you,when all you really do is cry
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Hmm there's alot more to ask before saying I do. When I have time, I'll post mah thoughts.

"Be happie in everything you do in life, keep your promises, cherish everyone that comes and goes your way, and most importantly...remember to always smile for me..." -mai 03.22.10

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Knows you love her but she does not love you
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Before you say "I do" consider his/her family, especially their mom/dad. Most people don't realize they don't get along with their in-laws until they actually got married which leads to arguements with their spouse. So try to get a good picture of their parents with you in it. Try talking to them and see where it leads.

There has been many cases where the MOM on one side asks for monies or ask for a grandson instead of a granddaughter. So just be careful of who or where you're marrying into.

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What's your answers to your question? I'm quite curious.

Plus, why worry about the future when it hasn't happen yet? Why make yourself answer all that question now when you dont' even know about the future?

Tau zoo nyob tsis nyob twb ywm. Like my father said, "Twb tsis tau mob los twb nroos tias mob mob lawm."

Note: dont' mind my hmong, im' practicing, as you can see. Laughing out loud

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