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how are you like while you're with you're significant other's family?
shy
50%
dislike them
4%
comfortable
21%
talkative
14%
simply just stay away
4%
other/s
7%
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Think life is sad? I say THINK again!

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It’s Friday night and I’m not in the mood to do anything in particular. I just want to stay in and relax. Let my body settle down for a cup of green tea and let my brain reflect on things that perhaps needs to be reflected on. Anyway today I took the time to read a couple of blogs on here and I realized that a lot them are quite depressing and that they all share a common ground of self struggles. Especially the girls, their blogs are predominantly miserable. Writing about their life drama as if there’s no tomorrow. Honestly though, why do Hmong girls always have to play the “I am weak at heart, despair is me, save me” role? I mean who passes out these lousy scripts anyway? Okay so what if life isn’t perfect? So what if life isn’t going as you intentionally plan? Deal with it.

I swear, sometimes I think some Hmong girls can be so weak. Instead of moping about how terrible life is, why can’t they just tell themselves that life was never easy for me, and I always had to work harder than other to get what I want? And that I am grateful for it because that is how life taught me the lessons I needed to know. I was not as smart as others, so I pushed myself to be determined. I was ugly, so I grew a personality and worked on advertising that. If I didn’t have luck on my side, I grew my own luck out of willpower, courage, and inner strength. If I got hurt, I picked myself back up. Obstacles only makes you stronger folks. Don’t complain about it, I say learn how to embrace it.

Sheesh.

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Sometimes, letting the depression or anger out is better than bottling it in. Not everyone may share the courage or strength that you possess. Count yourself lucky because you're able to filter those sorrowful memories into beautiful ones. Being able to look at life so optimistically isn't so easy, for some are unable to edit their views so swiftly.
People complain because we're only human; we can only do so much.

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There’s absolutely nothing wrong with writing about self struggles as its only natural but to write it with a strong passion of self pity is a little lame. Life is already hard as it is, the least you can do is make the best of everything, no?

There's no point in sulking, it'll take you to the road of nowhere.

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You're absolutely right, there is no point in sulking, but at times, emotions got out of hand.

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lalalala i just wanted to post again.

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I wouldn't be surprise. It's call venting for a reason. When a person is in an emotional state, it is always better to express that out in other forms then mopping around the room. This is why experts always recommend people to write thier thoughts in a diary,journal, blog or take it out by doing other outlets they enjoy. This can include walking, swimming, reading, whatever hobbies that keeps you focus and free of your emotions.

I wouldn't say "hmong" girls are weak. That's quite mean. The fact that you are using "this" social network you are only seeing "hmong" girls that vent on their problems. Now the question is why are they VENTING on ONLINE blogs in the 1st place. I admit there isn't much a set of "privacy" online. I would recommend one to use a PERSONAL blog where they can keep in their room but if their perference is an online blog, then so be it.

(maybe they want attendtion and sympathy, I can understand and you know what? The best part is that it'll be coming from an outside source rather than people she knows in rl. Comfort zone much? ^^)

Best to do is ignore blogs like this if dislike things like these. Sorry that these depressing journals ruined your evening. I would be thinking the exact same too if I were you lol.

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Some people vent their problems for others to hear and give some of their own good advice on. You know what makes me "MaD aS hELL?" people who pity those who are in need of help or a helping hand. Well it doesn't make me mad as hell just saying. It's like looking at an alcholic or drug addict trying to do the better so they'd go to those "anonymous" meetings; everyone thinks the meetings are rediculous, but hey those programs wouldn't be up if they never worked... Lol you can "Losely" tie that to the subject at hand.

Smile now, cry later.