i live with my sister free of rent so far bcuz i havent found a job yet and my main purpose for moving in is to bbsit their daughter anyway. so theyre ok with me being a bum right now

so, the problem is that my bf has been unemployed for 3 months. hes been living with me (without me or my sister and her husband's invitation nor consent). he just showed up one day and never left. but im ok with it. my sis and her husband seems to b ok with it too or if theyre not they havent voiced it yet. and all he ever does is watch tv, play games online (approximately 6+ hrs a day), and go fishing. not only does he do these but he spends money on fishing stuff practically every week. and for all these months, hes only caught one small trout and maybe 5 small bass. which means he hasnt really caught anything worthy of his expenses yet. money going out, none coming in. he doesnt even make an effort to go look for work too. its pissing me off cuz i feel like hes just using my sis' place to live so he can be a bum and have fun. im a bum too but at least i stay home. i dont go out spending money cuz i dont have any (but seriously i prefer staying home cuz im juz weird like that. i can do that for months - antisocial)

so ive come to the conclusion that i want to be with ppl who has money and who has a working libido

i was yelling at my bf jokingly but also seriously, that hes a broke loser who has no ambition AND he cant even f*ck me. yes its true, he just doesnt wana do it anymore. wtf right?! i asked him if hes just having a hard time getting it up or if hes just not into it or if its just me? he says theres nothing wrong. so im still not sure of wat the reason is.

i seriously feel like he is useless. so i asked him wat he wants/needs from me to show that i love him and ill tell him wat i want/need from him to prove that he loves me. he says he just wants me to stop nagging and take it easy on him wen he does something wrong. i told him he still has time to continue the list but he says thats his final answer. i said ok. then i went on to say that i need money and sex to be happy. thats all i need. i guess these are our expectations for eachother and its time to live up to it. if im not happy, im not loved. so, ppl shuldnt get mad if they get dumped for another. that was my ultimatum. the end

but dammit if u dont have money at least have s*x with ur gf so she can have some sort of pleasure and use for u!!! thats my message for the bums out there. thats all

p.s. - my bf knew that i was gona come to CO for 4weeks and i gave him 4days to f*ck me and he couldnt do it. i was patient waiting and giving him time but hes ****en annoying me. wats a relationship without money, and especially when the s*x is not there too??!! thats a double no-no.