Lol. My first reaction would be to panic.

But answering your question... The situation fluctuates.
It depends on how much the guy loves and trust the girl.
If you love her enough to solely believe her on her words, then take responsibility. If not, then tell her to do a check up.
Of course she'll feel hurt by you telling her that, but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do.
If you don't want to be tied down, especially with a kid that's not even yours, then make confirmations.

Women can be deceiving, so be careful of who you're dealing with.

If you trusted her and married her all that crap and then found out that the child wasn't yours, then that will be up to your decision.
I, personally, would feel disgusted. If I was to be put in that situation, I would grit my teeth and continue with life. Even though the kid's biologically not mine, I have treated him/her as my own for a while already, so it won't make much difference.
I would get angry with her about it though. EXTREMELY angry, but she's my wife. As long as she doesn't commit the same sin or similar sins that involve lying to me, then I'm able to cope through life with her.

However, I'm not a guy. So I don't have to worry about such things.

You're screw. Who told you to sleep with her. Go marry her and have a happy life. =] liiFe

Be with her until the baby is born.
Quickly do a DNA test.
If it turn out positive that it's yours, be happy and love her.
If it turn out to be negative, god damn Brahh, kiss that skank a last goodbye.

Okay, that was kind of cruel.

Whatever it is, you just have to do what's best for you and her.

I told my husband I was pregnant.. His reaction was "quit lying! Go take a pregnancy test!!" I gave him the evil look then proceed to give him the piss stain pregnancy test that shows that I'm pregnant.. He then rejoices & apologized for his dumbass way...

In your situation, really consider what you want to do... If she's the one you want to be with the rest of your life then consider her pregnancy a big sign that it's time to settle down. If you are not that serious with her, let your feelings be know, but remember to take responsibility. You created this child with her, if she decides to keep the baby, & you still don't want to marry her, be ready to pay child support... but then again, you can just go the Hmong route & get marry...

puahahhaahha guys ok ok so if she tells you this is what you should do and what i would get the test if its not yours go hit that one more time and then pack and get the hell out of town and if it is urs go hit it on more time and still get the hell out of there lol XD

if she tells me if she was pregnant? hmmm.

i'll say " Ahh F**K! my dad is going to kill me." (to myself of course)

followed by :

" are you sure? "
" alright. what do you want to do? "
" i'm willing to keep the child. its your decision. "

--- depending on her answer, this is my answer to her if she says keep the child. ---

" lets go tell my folks. "

then comes the wedding.

but if the child comes out black. (out the door you go and i want my money back. ) lmao.

be happy with her, tell her that you love to see how your son or daughter turn out and cant wait to see he or she. then tell her that you are so happy and want to take her out for hunting or camping.
you know, its ****een hunting season! all you have to do is take that bitch out on those rough roads and let nature does its job. Then you can enjoy watching she suffer when she get a miscarriage.

Lol, could it be that you're using that excuse of "what if that's not my baby" so you won't have to take responsibility of it?

But, if you're 100% sure that your girlfriend sleeps around or isn't being faithful then you should leave her and hopefully she tells you the truth that way.

Good luck to you buddy.

lol 10seconds of action can get you 18 years of hell. hahahaha ****en sex ownz YOOO. sorry, but i think you are ****ed dude. the only way out of this **** is to prepare to be a daddy. lol yo gonna **** the same pussy for the rest of your fuccken life. hahahahaah evil laugh

Hms, Best answer is.... You get a JOB!

The words from Lil Wayne

"Safe sex is great sex
Better wear a latex
Cause you don't want that late text
that "I think I'm late" text
So wrap it up"

It's as easy as 1,2,3!

After reading all these replies, I seriously think STFU has psychological issues. Lmao! The thought of purposely making her have a miscarriage never even occurred to me, until I read his reply. LOL!
What an evil bastard.

wtf? i was trying to help the dude out. but if he doesnt like to torture her that way, he can show a little love by having ROUGH sex. yeah fuccck her so hard but try not to break her backbone, and pray that a miscarriage will follow. But he has to eat her pussiz for breakfast, lunch and dinner! ooh the midnight snack tooo.

just be straight up...you can't sugar-coat things like this.

well.. that SUCKS!

Two scariest thing any man can hear from a lady:
1. "I do."
2. "I'm pregnant" and/or "I miss my period."

But in all seriousness, if you do not know the answer to the question you asked, you shouldn't have put that thing anywhere else but the underwear you had on.

If I was her and the baby is yours, I would do myself a favor and abort the baby. No baby deserve to be born into this world to such a selfish ignorant father. Perhaps she should keep the child and make you pay 18 years of child support and not a single day to spend with the child for your selfishness as justice.

1. she shouldve been smart enough to use protection or he shouldve had a condom
2. when you know your having sex without a condom, chances are she will Get PREGNANT.
3. and its YOURS beause u were dumb enough not to wear a damn condom.

4. Abort the baby unless your young n stupid to know that you guys cant take caer of the child.
5. GET married and raise the child.

My head hurts when I read this. -_-

First thing you should do: Cry.
Second thing you should do: Hug her.
Third thing you should do: Get down on one knee and ask, "Will you marry me?"
Fourth thing you should do: Wait 9 mos later and get DNA results.

If I were a guy and my love gave birth to a child that wasn't mines, I don't think I'd have the guts to leave her or the child. =] I wouldn't care, as long as my girl promised to never ever sleep w/ anyone else.

It’s funny, how many guys go through marriage in life thinking that the child is his.. I mean come on now, if she’s willing to have a one night stand with you, what makes you think you’re the only guy??! First and for most, when the child is born you 3 should request an DNA test. If the child is your, take full responsibility.. If it’s not yours, you should thank the lord above for saving you from marriage. epically to your one night stander who sleeps around just like yourself. Now if she’s your girlfriend for many years, that’s a different story..

I am uncertain myself...
but if you love the woman who claim to be carrying your baby... than love her. Dont make an excuse because she is pregnant. Be happy with her and rather the baby is your or not be thankful that a mircale has enter your life! There are so many people out there trying to have kids and are not able to do so, be glad that get to be part of something wonderful as to giving life to a innocent baby. Its not the baby fault that this event happen... its your and her!!! dont let the baby be a lost cause or an accident... believe that the baby is mean to have you as a father and her as a mother.

-sorry if i feel like .....-

STOP TYPING SO MUCH JUST SPIT IT OUT IN ONE SENTENCE LOL PETE GET SOME OTHER DUDES TO JUST RAIL HER LOL THEN THEY WONT KNOW WHOS THE FATHER SHEESH SIMPLE AS THAT

Well it depends if he trusts her enough to believe that the baby is his. Next is take care of the situation. Either marry the gurl n have a family or dnt marry the gurl n pay child support. Then there's abortion but that Depends on the girl nt the guy.