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Why Are Some Hmong So Ashamed of Being Hmong?

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I know its a self evaluation/realization thing, but I want to hear all your opinions. Be as raw as you want.

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Because of our history.
Or simply because they've seen too many examples of crudeness within their own race.

-Shrugs-
It's not that difficult to understand.
They take into account of what society thinks of them.

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because i am hmong.I love it. I'm shameless. =D

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Those people are just weird.
I love being Hmong. =] liiFe

Hi boys and girls of Hp. =] liiFe

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Starr is Hmong. Hmong is I.

Grrrrr.

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What?!?!
I love being Hmong.
Everywhere I go, I say I'm Hmong. =)
This is why we're on HmongPride


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Because we care too much about other Hmongs. -_^

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i love being hmong. i once at a burger with rice/water @ ****en mcdonalds. yes the whities were looking at me like they never seen a guy eat rice before.

i lied

Im allah, i only speak the truth but lies.

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hahaha wish i have your balls to do that

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Perhaps time has changed, but when i was growing up in the 90's the word "Hmong" was a synonym for ghetto for us teens. I went through my own phase of quietly hating myself for being Hmong, because i grew up with other ethnicities and they looked downed on Asian, or Hmong people. To be honest with everyone i wasn't proud of being Hmong until I started getting involve with the Hmong community. and every time i hear or see those ignorant Hmong folks who "hates" being Hmong, i know they're only hating themselves, but i also see in them, once a young me. Thanks for posting plz keep it coming.

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We all know that yes, there has been quite a numerous amount of absurd actions performed by many Hmong people. But I'm sure we all do realize that acts of stupidity really just falls within individuals rather than a whole race.
What I'm saying is that many Hmong kids these days are ashamed of being Hmong because of the fact that Hmong people are very well targeted by other ethnics for individuals' (who happen to me Hmong) actions that have portrayed ignorance and stupidity. With that, one feels the pressure to conform within the 'in' group and just go along with the overwhelming, overpowering group of hatred rather than be the next target due to standing up for oneself and his/her ethnic of being Hmong.

I'm quite proud of being Hmong, but it seems that conformity and pressure has really gotten through to the mindless brains of youths nowadays. =)
*shrugs.*
Kids. ^__^

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I guess it's because they don't understand it. They don't understand the history, morals, maybe even language. IDK. They're stupid.

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What I like most about being Hmong.....
Love how we eat everything with pepper. Yummy!

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&&& Chicken and Rice! =]

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LOL. That too.

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same here i lovebeing hmong only reason i hate being hmong is that we dont got enfoug last names (by the way any hoe out the look for a job)

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I don't think of myself as Hmong... Just another person. =/

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See, you guys have it all wrong. =] They're not ashamed to be Hmong. WE HMONG PEOPLE are ashamed to have THEM as part of OUR ethnicity. Please, there are other people in this world dying to be one of us because we are so damn cool! You guys dig? ^_^

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to all the haters that are hmong and hate hmongs can eat **** and get butt **** by in MJ in hell.
lolx jkid r.i.p MJ but yeah if your ashamed then you might aswell kill yourself instead of always complaining about it. **** ahhh your MAD! hhahahaah but me......I am 100% Proud to be a 100% HMONG! amen to that bitches lolx

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Hmong is in my blood Smile
It's just that they don't understand our history or their own kind.
Shrugs* Iono

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I love being Hmong.
The Hmong food, the Hmong clothes, the Hmong movies, the Hmong songs, the Hmong shoes . . .
The Hmong hat, the Hmong new year, and all those other Hmong stuff Smile
I don't see why some ppl are ashamed to be Hmong Smile

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Ahaha. Nerdy just have to include the Hmong shoes.

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the 90s were a hard time for the hmong youth. those were the days when all i heard about were gangs and girls sneaking out hehe. the second generation (kids around 10 and under right now) are getting out of the old image and being really Americanized quickly. some cant even speak hmong. a lot of the young hmong people are getting better jobs now and going further with education and the community is getting recognized more. i see people make funny comments and just say random things in this post hehe, but what i say is if youre mad about something, then do something about it. ive heard this topic for a decade now and wonder why people still feel the same about it. the community isnt gonna change if no one wants to start that change...

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the 90s were a hard time for the hmong youth. those were the days when all i heard about were gangs and girls sneaking out hehe. the second generation (kids around 10 and under right now) are getting out of the old image and being really Americanized quickly. some cant even speak hmong. a lot of the young hmong people are getting better jobs now and going further with education and the community is getting recognized more. i see people make funny comments and just say random things in this post hehe, but what i say is if youre mad about something, then do something about it. ive heard this topic for a decade now and wonder why people still feel the same about it. the community isnt gonna change if no one wants to start that change...

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i feel you on that one Hype Nation. But just a FYI, we have been doing a lot to try to change things;and i feel like things have changed a lot. we all have try to change the Hmong community one way or another, whether it be through school, fashion, music, writing, politics, etc. The peeps from my generation and before can tell that times have change. I MEAN COME ON It's 2009, almost 2010 it's been almost 50 years in the making.
HMONG PEOPLE ARE SEXY WWWWHHHHOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wink

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ooooooo!! where's the sexy people at????

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I think it's just the stupider under-educated ones.

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Well personally, Im not ashamed nor proud of it. I would say Im Hmong. But just leave it at that.

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I can see why some people are ashamed.

Because of some of our moral and values.
Like...Some families still believe that girls shouldnt go out and do anything, like sports, or any extra curricular activites.
They believe that only the girls should work around the house doing the chores, when the boys should be washing the dishes and helping out also.

Something esle, Hmongs strongly dislike gays, bisexual, etc. I find myself able to accept this, and I know some elders who finally found it in themself to accept this also, but thats only a small population of it.

This is just some examples of some reason why some people may feel like they don't want to be Hmong.
Because if they were to be white, black, or anything else, it'd be easier for them to go around doing whatever they'd like.

I am very blessed to be Hmong, a culture and group that is so unique. But there are always advantages and disadvantages.

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Now this may nigga!!! (no homo...) but I feel ya fam, we Hmong people are unique, well every other race is too but I value Hmong more!!!!! Lolx

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those who hate being hmong are just plan **** up

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Elaborate on that please.

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Hmmm.. Ashamed of being hmong?

All i got to say is.. I'll never date a person who's White Washed Laughing out loud

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What about a person who is hmong wash? lol like a black guy who love hanging out with his hmong friends so much that he's really hmong wash and know how to speak hmong.

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Then, he needs to look like Donny. Laughing out loud

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ah. u never dated a white washed person but you have know quite a few no?

I know alot of white wash hmong, black wash hmong, mexican wash hmong, korean wash, japanese wash. lol. i know alot. i even know the pure FOB hmong.

Theres nothing wrong with that. I understand it depends on the area you grew up in.

I grew up in the ghetto area with many hmong people where i learned to be FOB (hah) then moved out of it into a white neighborhood where only old white people live. and now i live in another white dominate area.

I dont categorize myself to be any of the wash. Since i have different groups of friends and i act according to them. (haha) im not sure if that make sense but yeah. =]

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I used to be so ashamed when I was much younger. Maybe because my parents were so friggn strict, controlling, &old-fashion, etc... I grew up in a white neigborhood, and used to be discrimated against. When i was 2 y/o, i used to wonder what Chinks means. I was very aware of what was going on, even though I didnt understand it. No one at that time knew what hmong was, and cant even pronouce it. Nor can they even pronouce my name right. Other asians called us Meow, barbarians, etc...* i remember one time, a laotian girl said to me, that hmong was the lowest class asian...haha! I just want to laugh about it now.

Things change when you get older....

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'lowest class asian'
Ha! Thats f-ed up.

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I had similar experiences. My neighbor accused us of eating their cat and called the police on us.

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Lmfao! Wtf

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lol Are you serious? i know white kids used to teased us, saying that we eat dogs....lol. or they ask if we eat other domestic animals...lol

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They can't even pronounce my name right. What I think is, when Hmong people were younger, they didn't like being Hmong, bcause their parents were too old fashioned. I think that is really true.

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They can't even pronounce my name right. What I think is, when Hmong people were younger, they didn't like being Hmong, bcause their parents were too old fashioned. I think that is really true.

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Though we aren't the best or at the top. Appreciate where you came from. Because where you came from is what made you the person you are. It could be worse you know.

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I'm ashamed of many Hmong people's actions.

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Yup!

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Cause there are some dumbasses out there that disgraces our name. Duh!! As much as I am ashamed cause of those dumbasses, I never deny who I am.

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I LOVE BEING HMONG!!! Back then they would ask me what nationality I am and I would say I am Hmong!! And the would say wat is that??? And so on... But now and days it's just like youre Hmong huh?? Soooo yea. I love being Hmong though I don't understand why other Hmong people wouldn't like being Hmong.

But as for me I think Hmong people are VERY/SUPER/REALLY UNIQUE! Bcause of our history. No one knows exactly where we came from, what we are (other than Hmong), how we came to be? One day I would like to know exactly how Hmong people came to be, yes there are a lot of stories about China, Mongolia, and even Korea! But they can all b true to, well I think.

I have no regrets being Hmong, I actually think every Hmong person is unique, I guess they just don't see it how I see this. But every persons got their own opinion.

♪♭VaHmong♭♪

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NOW THIS IS A HOT TOPIC!!!!!

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